My wife and I are in our mid 30s I'm English and she's Vietnamese, we live in Hanoi. We have a pretty good sex life but it could be spicier let's say. She's a bit prudish and gets embarrassed when I suggest freaky stuff (but she does like to be dominated strongly now and again). Anyway, she mentioned having a sexy dream about her colleague (he's quite a bit younger than us and Vietnamese like her) which made me feel jealous but also horny. A month or two later she told me how her colleague broke up with his gf and she was comforting him about it (I felt a bit jealous but I nothing untoward was going on). She has been taking care of her appearance a bit more lately and staying later at work. She works late anyway and I do not suspect anything physical is going on, but I do think he's playing a confidant role which makes me uneasy. She mentioned today how she'd love to try fucking a Vietnamese guy (she's only fucked white guys hitherto). I half joked about feeling jealous and asking her if anything is going on, and she said no (I believe her) but she said "I was right to feel jealous"...she loves teasing me about this kind of stuff tbh and I think it was her way of saying "don't take me for granted", "treat me like a queen or someone else will" etc. I have had a cuckold fetish for the longest time (like everyone here lol) so I'm wondering if this is an opportunity to try out a threesome or some other controlled way of her getting to fuck this guy and me dipping my toe into my fantasy, but without things getting out of hand. I want to give her permission to fool around in some way but be involved in some way (maybe not physically there but seeing her right before and after and talking about it etc). I really don't want her to catch feelings and for it to turn into an affair which she starts lying to me about etc. I'm a bit embarrassed to put forward the idea of her having sex outside of the relationship because she might think I'm less manly or whatever...she likes seeing me jealous and protective in performativity hetero-normative way. That said I do believe she really *would* like to have a playmate other than me and the idea of opening things up *is* exciting to me. I have doubts about letting a guy she possibly has some feelings for already be the guy to kick things off with... How can I approach this do you think? Maybe ask if I can meet the guy and we can all get a drink together?
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