My wife has asked me if I like to cum in cage before Pussy

My wife has said that I would rather cum in chastity with a magic wand than cum in a pussy,
She wants to be filled up.
I did not tell her the truth and I am scared of the out come or what it would be.
I don’t want to cum in them or even fuck a pussy.
I’m desperate to cum in my cage with the wand and poppers I find it so magical and don’t want it to stop ever.
Pussy does not have any appeal for me now!.
I’m going to tell her the truth the next time she brings it up. Depending on her mood.
What are your thoughts
I can cum in my cage without any stimulation after 4 or 5 days locked in cage 🙂 and I agree with you that cum in cage is the best way to cum! Much better than fuck pussy or blowjob/handjob!