my wife is old school

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she don't believe in messing around if your married even if i tell her to she gets mad. any thoughts
 
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she don't believe in messing around if your married even if i tell her to she gets mad. any thoughts
My wife and I had a discussion about her being a hotwife a long time ago. She wanted to know, 1) what's in it for myself and 2) Shouldn't/wouldn't it upset me to have another man taking her sexually.
I'm only speaking for myself, but I told her, to me, I believe most men look at sex as more of an activity. Where as women tend to equate it more to love (i.e. making love). I also told her that, while I enjoy having sex with other women when swinging, and I enjoy it. I really get turned on by HER pleasure, regardless of who is pleasuring her and having to wait my turn, just makes taking her so much better.
 
Take it slow and consider her feeling down the way, dm me if you would like to discuss more about it and provide more context
i have moved slow i met her she just turned 19 i was her first and only know she 56 and she really shy she will not even watch porn