Talk, talk and talk during foreplay, a flick or two with a few drinks and more talk. Start pointing out to her that many men have their eye on her as she strolls by. Buy her a outfit or two
take her to a good lounge in a quality business district hotel, ask her too look around at the guys and ask her who she would flirt with if she was alone. the key to success is not to be greedy with your goals. one little step at a time.