Need advice and tips for a starting cuckold relationship

[Johnny13]

Greetings and well met everyone.

As you can see, this is my first forum topic here, and if it's written in the wrong thread, I apologise and hopefully it will be moved to the right one.

As a start, I am 31 years old, and I am engaged to my lovely partner for about 5 years now.

My fiancee is 40 years old, and we are together for about 6 years.

In the last 2 years, our sexual activity has becoming more and more boring, dull and rare, with us having sex maybe once in 4 to 5 months.

The last week however, I have a high libido surge after reading and watching some very interesting stuff regarding cuckold relationship dynamics and how to start them.

I must admit, I have the cuckolding fetish since I was maybe 19-20 years old, but now, having a stable and loving partner, I want to take the next step and I need all the professional advice I can get.

2 days ago when me and her had sex, I asked her what would she think about adding a sex toy to our bed and she eagerly agreed, so I can say this might be a start.

Now, regarding my questions and advise needed, would it be okay to get her for a start, a present of a realistic dildo, with its shape and size bigger than my penis?

Please excuse me if I have grammar mistakes, as English is not my main language.

Also feel free to ask me about anything I have might forgot in order for you to understand and help me better in my ( hopefully ) new cuckold adventures.

 

[Caldosch]

I would start with a vibrator to be honest and then move onto the realistic dildo. Just incase she finds it a little intimidating to start with. Mine did. She was ok with it but I could tell she was a bit apprehensive at first.
Realistic dildos have certainly helped my wife open up a bit more about taking another cock.

 

[Johnny13]

Interesting, thanks for your advice.
Waiting on more advices though before getting a toy in, for the moment I have my eyes set on a silicon realistic black dildo, of about 20 cm ( 8'' ? ).
From what I know and our talks we had when our relationship developed, she mentioned a few times having an interest into black men, but never happened, as we live in a country were they are seldomly found.
Also, I do know it's not very nice what I did ( 6 years ago ) when she was at work and I was home alone, I have checked her laptop browser history to see if I can find anything spicy and it was all interracial porn videos and pictures she looked at.
Hence, my idea to bring a black dildo into play.

I just hope, that it might not be too late to change something, as I have previously confessed, our sexual activity was at a all time low for a period.

 

[Fredposer2017]

Hi Jennifer here. Engaged for five years? Maybe you start by showing your commitment to her and actually get married.

 

[Johnny13]

Hi Jennifer here. Engaged for five years? Maybe you start by showing your commitment to her and actually get married.

Hi there Jennifer.
Yes, we will come to that most probably next year and plan a wedding.
But until then I have to try all my posibilities and take all the chances I can into convincing her.
Thats why I asked for help and how best to start step by step

 

[Johnny13]

I have been reading on another forum, that a good start for this to start a conversation about it, it's to tell her that '' I had a dream of you being with another man and it was exciting '' , anyone else used this before at an early start? I am thinking that if I tell her this, it might plant the seed in her mind and make her think about it.

 

[Caldosch]

I have been reading on another forum, that a good start for this to start a conversation about it, it's to tell her that '' I had a dream of you being with another man and it was exciting '' , anyone else used this before at an early start? I am thinking that if I tell her this, it might plant the seed in her mind and make her think about it.

That's exactly how I planted the seed! I still use the same technique to bring up different scenarios. It worked really well in my situation.
I told her I had a dream about her. Naturally she asked for the details. I told her it was really explicit and that I was still processing it myself. She pushed for more details and things progressed from there.

 

[Phun Times 727]

Hi Jennifer here. Engaged for five years? Maybe you start by showing your commitment to her and actually get married.

I thought the same lol but at this point it is likely a safer place to start this journey than if you were already married in that if it does not work out there is less at play. It is a big gamble. I held it in forever, to the point I could not and we have broke some of the rules, which I guess are the rules for when you are breaking other rules. You are taking the established relationship and giving it a stress test in so many ways. You don't know currently how she will react, if she is open to it (or is REALLY open to it like she had been looking for an excuse), you don't know how feelings and jealousy may factor in to things. Not every relationship can withstand it. In my case I had and still have so much at risk but not letting that out was no longer an option. I say this because with you not being married yet, you have a bit less to risk and if it works out the way you want then it is a bonus.

 

[Phun Times 727]

One question: what is it you want out of this?

 

[BigDexter420]

Greetings and well met everyone.

As you can see, this is my first forum topic here, and if it's written in the wrong thread, I apologise and hopefully it will be moved to the right one.

As a start, I am 31 years old, and I am engaged to my lovely partner for about 5 years now.

My fiancee is 40 years old, and we are together for about 6 years.

In the last 2 years, our sexual activity has becoming more and more boring, dull and rare, with us having sex maybe once in 4 to 5 months.

The last week however, I have a high libido surge after reading and watching some very interesting stuff regarding cuckold relationship dynamics and how to start them.

I must admit, I have the cuckolding fetish since I was maybe 19-20 years old, but now, having a stable and loving partner, I want to take the next step and I need all the professional advice I can get.

2 days ago when me and her had sex, I asked her what would she think about adding a sex toy to our bed and she eagerly agreed, so I can say this might be a start.

Now, regarding my questions and advise needed, would it be okay to get her for a start, a present of a realistic dildo, with its shape and size bigger than my penis?

Please excuse me if I have grammar mistakes, as English is not my main language.

Also feel free to ask me about anything I have might forgot in order for you to understand and help me better in my ( hopefully ) new cuckold adventures.

Yes get her the dildo. If you can get a suction cup one so you can spit roast her, and eventually get another so she can be spit roasted by something bigger than you

 

[Johnny13]

One question: what is it you want out of this?

For her to start wishing and desire to have a lover, a black one preferably and to have a cuckold relationship.

 

[Johnny13]

Greetings friends,
Been sometime from my first post where I asked for help and advice regarding my relatoonship.

Good news, I have brought and gifted my fiance a very nice and realistic black dildo ( about 21 cm long , thats 8'' I think ) and she likes it but is afraid of it to take it all in.
We used it already a few times and I can see on her she prefers it and loves to play with it.
Actually last time she masturbated with it while I also masturbated besides her watching her using it.

Now, hopefully things will take in time a new turn, and I have to find the moment when I can express my desire to see her with a lover.

Wish me luck, maybe this will happen, as there is nothing more that I wish than to know and see her having a lover and be her cuckold.

 

[Johnny13]

Hello everyone,
I've got a small update 🙂

While she held the last time the black dildo, as I was kissing her naked body all over, she suddenly said " Put that black dick in me "
I swear, when I heard this I almost came instantly, as I couldn't believe what she just uttered.
So I took it and started pushing it gently in her, the contrast looking sooo good, that thick black dildo into her pinky white pussy.
It was not long after that she grabbed my cock, squeezed it a few times and I spunked all over her, which of course made her smile and giggle.

I wonder if she has any idea already and why it turned me on so much when I heard, and used it on her.
I hope she does.

Now, for the 2nd part.
In the morning when I take the bus to work, I often find myself on the same bench with this young, black guy that comes from Senegal.
He is a refugee that settled and works here for around 2 years now.
Me and him didn't chat much, we only greet each other and once we showed each other pictures of our pets.

I do wonder at something, what if next time I meet with him there, I pretend to show new pictures of my dog and cats, however, by " mistake " there are some nude pictures of my fiancee right beside them that I slide and he can see , so I can see his reaction?
Honestly, he would be the perfect guy for her ( from my point of view of course )

Thoughts?
Thank you all

 

[Johnny13]

Hello, new update and some good news.
In the morning as I was waiting for the bus, the black guy showed also after a few minutes, we greeted each other and started talking a bit.

He works at a warehouse as a forklift worker, moving stuff around from here to there and so on.

In the meantime the bus arrived and we both got in, I asked him how does he likes it around here, the weather, the food and so on.
I must admit all this time my heart was racing and I'm sure I was blushing at times like a girl, and was just thinking that he surely has no ideas what my plans and desires are with him!!!!

In the end, I asked for his number and we both added each other on whats app, as the bus approached his bus station where he got off.

Now, I am very happy about how all went on!! But the main problem and obstacle at this time is that even if I befriend him, theres also my fiance that has to know about this, we are at just the very start of it and she might not like this at all if I ever tell her.
I mean, this guy is nice, young ( I think around 24-28 years old ) but I must now device a plan how to get to know him better , get out more often, and also in time to introduce him to my fiance ( Karina ).

Just a bit anxious that she might not be interested in this, or worse, have a bad reaction if I tell her that I suddenly got a black friend, while 2-3 weeks ago I bought her the black dildo.

I mean, things are going waaaay too fast and this might be the chance I look for, but I am stuck for the moment in progressing further with Karina before anything else!

 

[jdomcny]

Greetings and well met everyone.

As you can see, this is my first forum topic here, and if it's written in the wrong thread, I apologise and hopefully it will be moved to the right one.

As a start, I am 31 years old, and I am engaged to my lovely partner for about 5 years now.

My fiancee is 40 years old, and we are together for about 6 years.

In the last 2 years, our sexual activity has becoming more and more boring, dull and rare, with us having sex maybe once in 4 to 5 months.

The last week however, I have a high libido surge after reading and watching some very interesting stuff regarding cuckold relationship dynamics and how to start them.

I must admit, I have the cuckolding fetish since I was maybe 19-20 years old, but now, having a stable and loving partner, I want to take the next step and I need all the professional advice I can get.

2 days ago when me and her had sex, I asked her what would she think about adding a sex toy to our bed and she eagerly agreed, so I can say this might be a start.

Now, regarding my questions and advise needed, would it be okay to get her for a start, a present of a realistic dildo, with its shape and size bigger than my penis?

Please excuse me if I have grammar mistakes, as English is not my main language.

Also feel free to ask me about anything I have might forgot in order for you to understand and help me better in my ( hopefully ) new cuckold adventures.

At some point soon..but don't rush it.. Black toys, Dildo...Black cock sleeve extension you can wear...

 

[Johnny13]

Hello everyone!

Good news.
Since my last post here in 15th July, there is some progress...
I met 3 times at a pub with the black guy from the bus station I wrote last time, his name is Abdu, and he is from Senegal.

we chat now and then on whats app, and me and him are becoming buddies.

My girlfriend doesn't know about him, I told her I'm gonna meet some other friends of mine ( that she also knows )

Extra:
Last night we had sex.
Once again, we used the black dildo almost from the start, as I done my utmost best not to give a good performance, so she can see that she might be need a change.
So every 2 thrust I pretended my cock slipped out of her pussy, barely put it back from 1st try, that I got tired, that I needed time for get fully erect back etc etc.
That until I got the black dildo from the cupboards and she could see the change in me, how excited and lustful I was after that.
She played with it herself while she jerked me and once again it wasn't long until I came all over.
All this time I watched her hand and the dildo going in and out, so I am sure she has noticed where my attention was.
I want her to know and understand.

Damn it, all I was thinking at then was that instead of the dildo in her, there's Abdu giving her some of that African black cock.

I'm gonna have to device a plan to tell her about him, I'm afraid if I do, she might become suspicious of me befriending a black man, while a month ago or so I bought her a black dildo..

 

[robbiewillsucku]

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[toolman2c]

Hello everyone!

Good news.
Since my last post here in 15th July, there is some progress...
I met 3 times at a pub with the black guy from the bus station I wrote last time, his name is Abdu, and he is from Senegal.

we chat now and then on whats app, and me and him are becoming buddies.

My girlfriend doesn't know about him, I told her I'm gonna meet some other friends of mine ( that she also knows )

Extra:
Last night we had sex.
Once again, we used the black dildo almost from the start, as I done my utmost best not to give a good performance, so she can see that she might be need a change.
So every 2 thrust I pretended my cock slipped out of her pussy, barely put it back from 1st try, that I got tired, that I needed time for get fully erect back etc etc.
That until I got the black dildo from the cupboards and she could see the change in me, how excited and lustful I was after that.
She played with it herself while she jerked me and once again it wasn't long until I came all over.
All this time I watched her hand and the dildo going in and out, so I am sure she has noticed where my attention was.
I want her to know and understand.

Damn it, all I was thinking at then was that instead of the dildo in her, there's Abdu giving her some of that African black cock.

I'm gonna have to device a plan to tell her about him, I'm afraid if I do, she might become suspicious of me befriending a black man, while a month ago or so I bought her a black dildo..

Wow your head is spinning fast, your mistake already is by not telling her a watered down version of your desires 2c her Blacked, when/if he 1st fucked her make sure he deep seeds her, even if he has to remove condom as shes cums,
She will be totally Blacked once shes split wide n deep and Black seeds are blasted into her yearning depths. She will be Hooked on BBC ,, i hope your able to handle it.