Need help with wife's point of view.

brgmiata

Couple
Wife and I are 66 and I've been married for 45 years. I am her first and only. I, because of orthopaedic reasons, am unable to effectively penetrate her anymore. I seriously desire her to take a lover and be satisfied but she refuses. She is a seriously sexual creature but denies it. She says not until death do us part would she consider such. I want to hang on to a sexual. Relationship and see a third as the best way before I die, which isn't imminent.

I need a woman's perspective into this insane reasoning, how can I show her that besides it being erotic to me to share her that we both could benefit?
 
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