Rule number 1 in the lifestyle....preserve your primary relationship at all costs. "Revenge" doesn't fit that rule at all. Either work it out by having an open relationship, let him have an open relationship or get counseling where you can tell him how destructive his behavior has been to your relationship and that you won't stay with him if he continues. You might find that thinking more openly about your relationship and sex lives might suit you both better. You know the old adage "Revenge is a dish best served cold". If you want real "revenge", then get fit, get strong, make yourself more attractive than you ever thought possible. This will help you gain confidence. Be more assertive, meet people, flirt with guys, flirt with girls. Give your husband something to be jealous about and yourself something to work with to attract hot guys if you decide to open your mind about sex outside of marriage. When he sees you getting fit, dressing sexy and just "going out for a drink with the girls" while looking absolutely stunning...he will constantly be thinking about what you are really doing. You'll be in his head.
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