I think the key is really when you find someone who respects the relationship and understands the desires of the couple. It would also be the problem with the wife who, if she is not truly faithful, starts by leaving you out of the game.
Anyway, it is a difficult road, leaving fantasies aside... there are many things that have to work well.
What I am saying is that the woman should not be pushed on this road if she says she is happy with what is already offer. Once the pleasure of this game is installed, you are out of control
I think the key is really when you find someone who respects the relationship and understands the desires of the couple. It would also be the problem with the wife who, if she is not truly faithful, starts by leaving you out of the game.
Anyway, it is a difficult road, leaving fantasies aside... there are many things that have to work well.
What I am saying is that the woman should not be pushed on this road if she says she is happy with what is already offer. Once the pleasure of this game is installed, you are out of control
"I think the key is really when you find someone who respects the relationship and understands the desires of the couple."
As a very seasoned Bull it one of the basic rules of the Bull responsibility to respect the couples desires, but at the same time through the initial and continuing questions to know what their vision is and bring them alone..... to expand their design envelope to become the persons they were meant to be... Reach their "Self Actualization"
It's very rewarding helping them build TRUST, building the relationship and especially enjoying their journey. Think it like that Teacher that really make a positive impact on your life. Yes, I was a teacher.