Start at your own pace and get your wife comfortable with your desire for her to be pleasured by other people. Then I think the fun stuff will get her excited and intrigued about the lifestyle
Hey, I have tried following your profile but ii can't find much. So I guess the only advice that I can give is to follow your desires and requirements to fulfil exactly what your wife needs to be satisfied. I'm sure she will have some ideas and if you ever want to chat feel free to drop me a message xxx