Newbie need help!

[boricua97]

I am a 28 year old Puerto Rican male. I am currently in a relationship with my 25 year old smoking hot ebony girlfriend also ( baby mommaaa)

I’m having trouble wrapping my brain around this but for some reason I really think I would enjoy watching her get absolutely destroyed by another man with me possibly joining in or just watching. I asked her about it and she says she doesn’t know if she’ll like it and even if she agreed how to even find the right person.

I’ve lightly asked my friends if they would ever do something like that with their girl and of course the answer was hell no. So am I weird for wanting this or enjoying the idea of it? Like when she’s on her he knees giving me head I just imagine her getting back shots and moaning as she sucking me. I’m pretty sure she would be down to try , I just don’t know where to start and if it’s a bad idea…

Any help , suggestions or comments would be appreciated!

 

[Anon321]

It's definitely not weird but it's certainly a big change to your relationship and could have a major impact on it. There is a difference between seeing something in your fantasies and actually seeing it in real life in front of you.

Are you going to be ok seeing another man use your GF? Are you going to be ok seeing her get off on another man's cock? Can you handle another guy with a bigger dick outperforming you and "destroying" your GF? It might sound good as a fantasy but can you 100% with certainty say you would be ok with it? And if you were, are you ok with not getting anything in return (such as being able to have sex with other women)?

It's possible that a lot of your friends just probably don't want to admit that they've thought about it. It is still a taboo subject.

 

[tdog7119]

I am a 28 year old Puerto Rican male. I am currently in a relationship with my 25 year old smoking hot ebony girlfriend also ( baby mommaaa)

I’m having trouble wrapping my brain around this but for some reason I really think I would enjoy watching her get absolutely destroyed by another man with me possibly joining in or just watching. I asked her about it and she says she doesn’t know if she’ll like it and even if she agreed how to even find the right person.

I’ve lightly asked my friends if they would ever do something like that with their girl and of course the answer was hell no. So am I weird for wanting this or enjoying the idea of it? Like when she’s on her he knees giving me head I just imagine her getting back shots and moaning as she sucking me. I’m pretty sure she would be down to try , I just don’t know where to start and if it’s a bad idea…

Any help , suggestions or comments would be appreciated!

Not weird at all, very exciting thought to be honest. It is a big step and change. I am not privy to knowing how it is myself, but am curious as well. I find it an amazing fantasy at this point. It’s a no so far from my other half.
Best of luck and would love to see the two of you in action. Would love to join as well.

 

[boricua97]

It's definitely not weird but it's certainly a big change to your relationship and could have a major impact on it. There is a difference between seeing something in your fantasies and actually seeing it in real life in front of you.

Are you going to be ok seeing another man use your GF? Are you going to be ok seeing her get off on another man's cock? Can you handle another guy with a bigger dick outperforming you and "destroying" your GF? It might sound good as a fantasy but can you 100% with certainty say you would be ok with it? And if you were, are you ok with not getting anything in return (such as being able to have sex with other women)?

It's possible that a lot of your friends just probably don't want to admit that they've thought about it. It is still a taboo subject.

I agree all those questions are valid! Problem is I won’t know if I’m 100% okay with it happening unless it actually happens…. I’m pretty sure I’ll be okay though considering it’s something I’ve been thinking about it for a while. I think my personality is set up in a way where if it happens and it’s not ok , I wouldn’t blame her! We would just never do it again and move forward.

Someone also mentioned maybe starting with a handjob first and see how that goes before going all the way.


Any suggestions or tips on how to find another guy? We definitely don’t want someone from our area.

 

[Anon321]

I agree all those questions are valid! Problem is I won’t know if I’m 100% okay with it happening unless it actually happens…. I’m pretty sure I’ll be okay though considering it’s something I’ve been thinking about it for a while. I think my personality is set up in a way where if it happens and it’s not ok , I wouldn’t blame her! We would just never do it again and move forward.

Someone also mentioned maybe starting with a handjob first and see how that goes before going all the way.


Any suggestions or tips on how to find another guy? We definitely don’t want someone from our area.

The part in bold is important! Our first time was a MFM. You could start with a handjob. I think that will likely move further pretty quickly though. As far as finding people, the internet is your friend. Plenty of outlets online. Personally we like locals and do it the old fashion way most of the time.

 

[Neverwas7776]

I bet at least some of your friends are lying to you.