Hi everyone, so my wife and I are 40 and have 3 kids. Sex is fun, but nothing crazy, Occasionally I use a sleeve I bought from a website, custom made to fit me. Every time my wife is ovulating, she moans and cums unlike anything that happens when we have sex. I get it and want her to experience the real thing, but not sure how to discuss with her. We have had some random discussions over the years and it doesn't go well. Ultimately I love her and I am ready to let this go, but something just keeps telling me I will love this and she will love it even more....what to do?