No shows and wannabes!

[KevinNewell]

Hi all, a question for real cuckold couples, hot wives and real bulls.

Do you find that 50% of so called cuckold couples and bull’s are just wannabes?

The reason I ask is I’ve been a hot wife for 30 years and experienced many people saying they will turn up for meetings and they never show.

My regular bull James and I was chatting about this over new year when I was staying at his home. James organises guys for me for group sessions and if we want to get between 8 to 15 guys he has to invite about 40 plus as the vast majority say they will turn up but don’t. I’ve found similar with guys on swingers sites, I have a profile on Fabswingers and it’s the same ratio of guys no showing this is also true of Tinder.

It seems that there are lots of wannabes that talk a good fuck then can’t show up and deliver a good fuck! I wish people would be honest and if they are just jacking off on the thought of fucking a hot wife or getting their wife fucked just jack off to it and not make promises they won’t keep.

Has anyone else experienced this? I’ll be very surprised if they haven’t.

Sian. Xx

 

[TexasDaddy]

On this site it's 100%. I never got any play on here.

 

[KevinNewell]

Yes I do believe you’re right, I’ve had many offers on here but when it comes to meeting up it’s all excuses. I’ve found swingers sites and SPAM sites a more effective way of meeting bulls or just one off casual encounters.

I enjoy conversing on this site don’t get me wrong but as for real life meeting up, forget it.

Sian. Xx

 

[deal201]

I've heard about it a lot from the couples I know/have known. They say like 4 of 5 are no shows, or they suddenly go radio silent when the discussion to meet up starts. Then if they do actually show up, there's like a 50:50 chance that guy lied about something that becomes obvious when they meet. It really sucks. It's already difficult enough for a couple to make the decision to try this lifestyle, then all the wannabe bulls are a huge source of doubt. Then it just makes it even more difficult for the genuine bulls to get anywhere. It's hard enough to find couples as it is, and they just fuck it up for the rest of us.

It's definitely not exclusive to bulls/single guys, though. The amount of wannabe couples, typically the male half, pretending to set up meetings with bulls is pretty damn high, too. I have meet a couple couples from this website, and from other websites like this one. But it's rare to find a real couple. Most are just fantasy chasers. And over the years I've gotten pretty good at sussing out the fakes. 10 years of wading through the fakes will do that lol

In my experience each website/app has its own set of problems. Websites and forums like this one you have the problem of wannabes. Seems to me about 9 of 10 are wannabe cucks. Then on the legit swingers websites, the problem is saturation. There are soooo many bulls and wannabe bulls that getting a couples' attention is damn near impossible sometimes. And the wannabes have the couples weary, so it just makes it even harder.

Going to swinger and lifestyle parties has its own challenges, too. In person, many couples have their guard up, probably because of their experiences with wannabes in the past, and it takes some time to get through. It's definitely not an easy lifestyle for anyone in it. But when you find the right ones, oh boy is it fun.

 

[KevinNewell]

I've heard about it a lot from the couples I know/have known. They say like 4 of 5 are no shows, or they suddenly go radio silent when the discussion to meet up starts. Then if they do actually show up, there's like a 50:50 chance that guy lied about something that becomes obvious when they meet. It really sucks. It's already difficult enough for a couple to make the decision to try this lifestyle, then all the wannabe bulls are a huge source of doubt. Then it just makes it even more difficult for the genuine bulls to get anywhere. It's hard enough to find couples as it is, and they just fuck it up for the rest of us.

It's definitely not exclusive to bulls/single guys, though. The amount of wannabe couples, typically the male half, pretending to set up meetings with bulls is pretty damn high, too. I have meet a couple couples from this website, and from other websites like this one. But it's rare to find a real couple. Most are just fantasy chasers. And over the years I've gotten pretty good at sussing out the fakes. 10 years of wading through the fakes will do that lol

In my experience each website/app has its own set of problems. Websites and forums like this one you have the problem of wannabes. Seems to me about 9 of 10 are wannabe cucks. Then on the legit swingers websites, the problem is saturation. There are soooo many bulls and wannabe bulls that getting a couples' attention is damn near impossible sometimes. And the wannabes have the couples weary, so it just makes it even harder.

Going to swinger and lifestyle parties has its own challenges, too. In person, many couples have their guard up, probably because of their experiences with wannabes in the past, and it takes some time to get through. It's definitely not an easy lifestyle for anyone in it. But when you find the right ones, oh boy is it fun.

Thank you for your honest response and sharing your experiences.

Like you said experience helps us see the fake ones saying they will show up. It’s much easier finding a bull or a one off being a hot wife than a bull finding a genuine cuck couple. I’m also fortunate as my hubby Kevin does lots of the vetting for my new one off meets. And my regular bull of 15 years James is fantastic at organising groups of guys for me and brilliant at finding genuine swingers parties to take me to. James also takes me dogging that can be hit and miss though sometimes no one shows and sometimes loads but they only want bj’s and no fucking.

Sian. Xx

 

[deal201]

Thank you for your honest response and sharing your experiences.

Like you said experience helps us see the fake ones saying they will show up. It’s much easier finding a bull or a one off being a hot wife than a bull finding a genuine cuck couple. I’m also fortunate as my hubby Kevin does lots of the vetting for my new one off meets. And my regular bull of 15 years James is fantastic at organising groups of guys for me and brilliant at finding genuine swingers parties to take me to. James also takes me dogging that can be hit and miss though sometimes no one shows and sometimes loads but they only want bj’s and no fucking.

Sian. Xx

It's sad that it takes all that experience just to vet people for this, but it's the reality of the online world. At least you've got a good support group around you to make things happen. Man, I wish I would get dogging groups around here. They are so uncommon over here in the states. I've tried, but it just doesn't seem to work.