I have been to Secrets Hideaway, very nice and upscale, more of a resort actually. I am closer to Tampa and we have gone to EyzWide Shut in Brandon area. a couple times. Not a resort feel by any means. Going as a couple is the way to go, we tried separate entrances and it was a disaster (was doing a hotwife challenge) and we could not wind up in the same area for close to an hour.