One of the most exciting aspects of this, for me, is my wife preparing herself for a "business trip" when a Lover will be there too!! We spend the week before she leaves getting nails done (she always picks a color/style that she KNOWS I would love for her to get for me), she has her hair color touched up, sometimes she changes the style if he's a long term lover, buying new outfits to wear (lingerie for under her business appropriate outfits as well as hot and sexy outfits to wear when they are out for dinner, casino's, etc,), heels, nylons, perfume, makeup, etc. and at some point she picks out the smallest condoms available at WalGreens, etc to use while she is gone!!
At home, she has me shave and wax her the night before she leaves, help her pack for her "business trip", she talks the whole time aobut what she plans to wear for him, where she will wear it, what he likes her to wear for him, on and ON to drive me crazy!!
Most of the time, after I drop her off at the airport, I get back home to find out she has tucked her diaphragm case under my side of the bed with a note saying something like "I won't be needing this where I am going"!!! It is all the birth control she uses, and I never know if she is in her fertile time of the month or not............she knows how to click all my buttons!!
CW