Places for a impromptu meetup for wife

[Blxx]

So my wife if she’s going to play wants to meet someone where she has a connection with. The one time this happened we couldn’t act on it as too much of her family was there.

We’ve tried bars, hotel bars, concerts, but no luck as of yet. Part of it is we can only get away on the weekend, do most hotels don’t have conventions, people out of town on business, etc.

So I’m looking for ideas where we can meet people without setting it up in advance, she’s not into apps or sites, etc. she’s mid 60s looks 30’s and I think for ego likes guys in their 20s but said she feels like 40 would be more reasonable. However the one time that came close it was 2 guys in early 20s competing for her, it was a family party but she said if not she would’ve fucked both of them. There was also a kid who worked with her who wanted her who was in his early 20s too and we talked about that as he was leaving to finish college. But he got terrified of me when he met me at a company party lol if only he knew I wanted him to fuck my wife lol

So any suggestions where we could go to have a chance for her to meet and chat up guys. We live in central ny but travel all over the northeast.

It would have to be outside our immediate area as we wouldn’t want locals and family to know.

Any thoughts?

 

[keylife022]

So my wife if she’s going to play wants to meet someone where she has a connection with. The one time this happened we couldn’t act on it as too much of her family was there.

We’ve tried bars, hotel bars, concerts, but no luck as of yet. Part of it is we can only get away on the weekend, do most hotels don’t have conventions, people out of town on business, etc.

So I’m looking for ideas where we can meet people without setting it up in advance, she’s not into apps or sites, etc. she’s mid 60s looks 30’s and I think for ego likes guys in their 20s but said she feels like 40 would be more reasonable. However the one time that came close it was 2 guys in early 20s competing for her, it was a family party but she said if not she would’ve fucked both of them. There was also a kid who worked with her who wanted her who was in his early 20s too and we talked about that as he was leaving to finish college. But he got terrified of me when he met me at a company party lol if only he knew I wanted him to fuck my wife lol

So any suggestions where we could go to have a chance for her to meet and chat up guys. We live in central ny but travel all over the northeast.

It would have to be outside our immediate area as we wouldn’t want locals and family to know.

Any thoughts?

Stop trying to plan on playing and put yourself in positions to play if the situation arises.
A nudist resort would be a great place to find like minded and weekends are best. Get there Friday morning and plan on staying until Sunday afternoon. Keep your options open. Little by little the right guys will be finding you.

 

[dickhurtz]

when out in public, how does she dress? does she attract attention from guys.

i've had guys tell me they were hesitant to approach my wife because they were put off by how i look. my wife told me i don't look approachable so they stay away.

 

[Blxx]

Stop trying to plan on playing and put yourself in positions to play if the situation arises.
A nudist resort would be a great place to find like minded and weekends are best. Get there Friday morning and plan on staying until Sunday afternoon. Keep your options open. Little by little the right guys will be finding you.

I have brought that up she’s not open to the idea.

 

[Blxx]

when out in public, how does she dress? does she attract attention from guys.

i've had guys tell me they were hesitant to approach my wife because they were put off by how i look. my wife told me i don't look approachable so they stay away.

Shea always dressed sexy and make up and hair on point.

I do try to stay away as I’m told I look like I can hurt people lol but I’m the nicest guy. I try to get up to use the bathroom go outside yo take a call etc.

 

[dickhurtz]

Show me and tell me everything Dm me let’s chat

sorry, but we are a little late for that. she passed 5 years ago at age 74. now, they are just memories.

 

[JMNBABE]

So my wife if she’s going to play wants to meet someone where she has a connection with. The one time this happened we couldn’t act on it as too much of her family was there.

We’ve tried bars, hotel bars, concerts, but no luck as of yet. Part of it is we can only get away on the weekend, do most hotels don’t have conventions, people out of town on business, etc.

So I’m looking for ideas where we can meet people without setting it up in advance, she’s not into apps or sites, etc. she’s mid 60s looks 30’s and I think for ego likes guys in their 20s but said she feels like 40 would be more reasonable. However the one time that came close it was 2 guys in early 20s competing for her, it was a family party but she said if not she would’ve fucked both of them. There was also a kid who worked with her who wanted her who was in his early 20s too and we talked about that as he was leaving to finish college. But he got terrified of me when he met me at a company party lol if only he knew I wanted him to fuck my wife lol

So any suggestions where we could go to have a chance for her to meet and chat up guys. We live in central ny but travel all over the northeast.

It would have to be outside our immediate area as we wouldn’t want locals and family to know.

Any thoughts?

Our experience, despite the fantasy rumblings of many on here, has been that MOST guys are not comfortable with "it's OK with my husband" situations.....especially if you plan to watch!! Back in ths days of "swingers ads" we met a few guys that SAID they were OK with me being there....went poorly in most of thema nd she hated it. Said she is not "yur personla porn star".
Women need some emotional attachment (in most cases) to enjoy sex and ealax and let go. Her most recent and most successful relationships ahve ebeen with co-workers she gets to know as friends before they become Lovers, and the ability to travel together without spouses greatly increased the opportunities.......one NEEDS to be cauytious about work romances, and recognize that ALL they are is fun sexy dalliances and NOT working to serious life changing relationships, AND keep things quiet at work!!!
She did meet someone at a family reunion once, the best way to handle those are to exchange contact info and meet later on.....which became a fun hot sexy year long relationship for her.
Her longest affair with with her Boss/Lover, lasted almost 10 years.......it took a while to start too because they were afraid of work rumors and ruining a fantastic very rewarding work relationship....once it did, WOW!! They mad eup for time wasted, LOL.
But the best suggestion we can make is to forget about the silly fantaises you see on here about walking up to strangers and tellin ghem they can have her if you can watch....but be careful waht you wish for. These relationships take off FAST with the right Lover, and will be a LOT more intense than you plan, and getting in the way of th1at can ruin your personal relationship fast. Think aobut how HOT things were for the two of you initially (1-2 years)....this will be that times 10!!
CW

 

[watchingher10]

Our experience, despite the fantasy rumblings of many on here, has been that MOST guys are not comfortable with "it's OK with my husband" situations.....especially if you plan to watch!! Back in ths days of "swingers ads" we met a few guys that SAID they were OK with me being there....went poorly in most of thema nd she hated it. Said she is not "yur personla porn star".
Women need some emotional attachment (in most cases) to enjoy sex and ealax and let go. Her most recent and most successful relationships ahve ebeen with co-workers she gets to know as friends before they become Lovers, and the ability to travel together without spouses greatly increased the opportunities.......one NEEDS to be cauytious about work romances, and recognize that ALL they are is fun sexy dalliances and NOT working to serious life changing relationships, AND keep things quiet at work!!!
She did meet someone at a family reunion once, the best way to handle those are to exchange contact info and meet later on.....which became a fun hot sexy year long relationship for her.
Her longest affair with with her Boss/Lover, lasted almost 10 years.......it took a while to start too because they were afraid of work rumors and ruining a fantastic very rewarding work relationship....once it did, WOW!! They mad eup for time wasted, LOL.
But the best suggestion we can make is to forget about the silly fantaises you see on here about walking up to strangers and tellin ghem they can have her if you can watch....but be careful waht you wish for. These relationships take off FAST with the right Lover, and will be a LOT more intense than you plan, and getting in the way of th1at can ruin your personal relationship fast. Think aobut how HOT things were for the two of you initially (1-2 years)....this will be that times 10!!
CW

Yeah, mine was much more experienced than I was at this ....... Maybe she sat down and talked to me and told me like some of these things. And feelings where I was acting or am I overzealousness, you know, maybe it'd been different. Man, I know you tried to tell me, and I think he just loved me and just wanted to give me whatever. I reviewed her as my personal porn star. I fucking viewed her as like I said earlier.If you curve every nook, every cranny, every fucking moan, every everything. Her role for no kissing, no passion.No connection, not mine.I agreed because I thought, that's what we wanted. You live and you learn.

 

[Blxx]

Our experience, despite the fantasy rumblings of many on here, has been that MOST guys are not comfortable with "it's OK with my husband" situations.....especially if you plan to watch!! Back in ths days of "swingers ads" we met a few guys that SAID they were OK with me being there....went poorly in most of thema nd she hated it. Said she is not "yur personla porn star".
Women need some emotional attachment (in most cases) to enjoy sex and ealax and let go. Her most recent and most successful relationships ahve ebeen with co-workers she gets to know as friends before they become Lovers, and the ability to travel together without spouses greatly increased the opportunities.......one NEEDS to be cauytious about work romances, and recognize that ALL they are is fun sexy dalliances and NOT working to serious life changing relationships, AND keep things quiet at work!!!
She did meet someone at a family reunion once, the best way to handle those are to exchange contact info and meet later on.....which became a fun hot sexy year long relationship for her.
Her longest affair with with her Boss/Lover, lasted almost 10 years.......it took a while to start too because they were afraid of work rumors and ruining a fantastic very rewarding work relationship....once it did, WOW!! They mad eup for time wasted, LOL.
But the best suggestion we can make is to forget about the silly fantaises you see on here about walking up to strangers and tellin ghem they can have her if you can watch....but be careful waht you wish for. These relationships take off FAST with the right Lover, and will be a LOT more intense than you plan, and getting in the way of th1at can ruin your personal relationship fast. Think aobut how HOT things were for the two of you initially (1-2 years)....this will be that times 10!!
CW

Ty! Yea work isn’t really an option as too many guys she has 0 interest in hit in her constantly. lol there was a 22 year that was there as a temp before he left for dental school but he was wayyyy to shy. I know she thought he was cute and I told her she should fuck him as a going away present. Now she has never played but she dropped hints to him he didn’t pick up on, like are you going to the Christmas party? I need a ride, etc. but we figured he’s probably a terrible fuck if he’s that shy/afraid lol plus that’s how we met, I was working with her while she was married we hit it off and I could make her cum way more and better and gave her first oral orgasm lol.

Work normally would be best but between the unwanted attention and we really can’t let anyone local know it’s sorta out.

Part of our thoughts of isolating long term issues is ti be away from home. So it’s most likely a stranger and contact would be through me she doesn’t want or do that. Figure if anything she’d lead if she wanted to be alone or the 3 some. But she wants me there for safety. I normally don’t wear my wedding ring for work reasons, it’s dangerous, so I said you can just pass me off as another guy not your husband. But she hasn’t agreed to actually play so we can’t set it up in advance.

 

[Hwcouple702]

So my wife if she’s going to play wants to meet someone where she has a connection with. The one time this happened we couldn’t act on it as too much of her family was there.

We’ve tried bars, hotel bars, concerts, but no luck as of yet. Part of it is we can only get away on the weekend, do most hotels don’t have conventions, people out of town on business, etc.

So I’m looking for ideas where we can meet people without setting it up in advance, she’s not into apps or sites, etc. she’s mid 60s looks 30’s and I think for ego likes guys in their 20s but said she feels like 40 would be more reasonable. However the one time that came close it was 2 guys in early 20s competing for her, it was a family party but she said if not she would’ve fucked both of them. There was also a kid who worked with her who wanted her who was in his early 20s too and we talked about that as he was leaving to finish college. But he got terrified of me when he met me at a company party lol if only he knew I wanted him to fuck my wife lol

So any suggestions where we could go to have a chance for her to meet and chat up guys. We live in central ny but travel all over the northeast.

It would have to be outside our immediate area as we wouldn’t want locals and family to know.

Any thoughts?

Reading through this thread, she has too many "not in to that" problems to really make much happen. If she's attractive, confident and dresses in clothes which make her look sexy but not "sllutty" at all then she would have no problem getting picked up in any decent hotel bar or even a regular, classy bar. Take a dance class, go to events when they bring people to town for the weekend or week. Honestly, the best option is a REPUTABLE lifestyle site where you can make a profile, post a few images and then follow the postings for various parties. These parties can be local or anywhere in the country. Take an adults only cruise...at lifestyle cruise would be best. Zero pressure to play but opportunity to dress in a sexy bikini or go topless. On many cruises they can be clothing optional areas. Also, as posted by another member earlier, there are resorts around that run the gamut from adults only to full nude, lifestyle resorts. Many are located around the country and there's probably one near you..or reasonably so. The most important point is that time is flying by and opportunities are being missed. Soon u will "age out" and then perhaps regret not having taken any action on this...
Mr Hw

 

[Blxx]

Reading through this thread, she has too many "not in to that" problems to really make much happen. If she's attractive, confident and dresses in clothes which make her look sexy but not "sllutty" at all then she would have no problem getting picked up in any decent hotel bar or even a regular, classy bar. Take a dance class, go to events when they bring people to town for the weekend or week. Honestly, the best option is a REPUTABLE lifestyle site where you can make a profile, post a few images and then follow the postings for various parties. These parties can be local or anywhere in the country. Take an adults only cruise...at lifestyle cruise would be best. Zero pressure to play but opportunity to dress in a sexy bikini or go topless. On many cruises they can be clothing optional areas. Also, as posted by another member earlier, there are resorts around that run the gamut from adults only to full nude, lifestyle resorts. Many are located around the country and there's probably one near you..or reasonably so. The most important point is that time is flying by and opportunities are being missed. Soon u will "age out" and then perhaps regret not having taken any action on this...
Mr Hw

Ty! Good feedback! We are going away to Aruba in October it was supposed to adult only resort but it’s under remodel. lol but we got another that suites the bill! She just told me she wants to drop about 20lbs which to me is a positive sign as I love the way she looks but 20 would put her back to the weight she was when she was married before me and I was a side piece and she was going out constantly (I’m assuming having fun in the bars and stuff, at least one story she told me about a guy in a car outside the bar….) so I’m thinking she’s opening more to the concept. I think she’s just nervous and self conscious (yet again 20 year old still hit on her as is….) we’ve been talking more about them and she gets super wet and horny so hopefully soon!

And just to clarify she gets hit in constantly everywhere. But in general she prefers some type of connection so was looking for some place where chatting is easier , bars can be loud, etc. just want to make sure I’m wasn’t missing an idea/place/etc. but after she drops the weight I can pitch an adult cloths optional place and she can wear all the slutty swimsuits she wants……. Or not……