Yes. Things have changed over time. For me it was opportunistic, circumstance dependent. Stuff like travel, wife and kids on extended summer travel, the usual.
Out of curiosity in later times, I explored the bath/sauna scene, ABS/gloryhole scene, that sort of stuff. Easy, anonymous, risky.
Now we are in a poly thing;; me, Krista, and three other men. Two I recruited for her - they were/are members of an athletic club. We're pretty stable these days. If Krista is unavailable, the guys play.