It depends. I like to fuck hard so I would barely last a minute at that pace with my wife.
I've also started taking cialis which seems to make me cum quicker.
I started using a delay spray years ago. It's been a game changer for me. I can fuck for ages most of the time when using it. I never told my wife I use it so she was probably wondering what changed.
Quite often now she'll tap out before I get to cum once