I get told and then shown what she is wearing. She makes all her own choices. Sometimes, I get a shopping order of what she wants so that I can get it for her.
Depends on some of our bulls, some like smooth shaven, others like to see the true ginger bush proof, they also get to choose wether it's lingerie for an intimate romp in our marital bed or if they want to take me out with their friends or to a group party.