First time poster here, have read the forum for a while, and have been slowly working on my wife and hoping maybe someone can provide a little encouragement.
A little background - my wife and I have been married for 19 years, we have a very strong relationship and no concerns in this area. For a while I have had reoccurring thoughts of her being with another man. This would be quite significant for her, as she has only ever fucked me. She was from a conservative background and we married young. We have quite a decent sex life for people that have been married a number of years. She is 39 years old and I would describe her as very sexy with a hot body.
I have raised with her the possibility of me being OK with her to be with another man. Part of this comes from me thinking I would enjoy watching her, but also I have really felt bad for her only experiencing me. Because I was her first, she has always felt bad that she couldn't just enter a relationship experienced and confident when it came to sex. I explained to her that I thought she may lack a little confidence because she has never had to respond to any other men being interested or trying to get with her. She agreed that it might have had an effect and it would have been nice to experience that, but it's not something that overly concerns her. However, some of the things she said while we were talking and her body language makes me feel she is curious about other men.
Is anyone interested in doing some tributes for her? And when the time is right I will show her and prove to her that she would easily be able to find another guy to be with for fun and men find her attractive. I think her upbringing may have convinced her that sex isn't meant to be that fun and the pleasure shouldn't be shared with others. This might help her decide if it's something she wants to pursue. I'm not too worried if she doesn't through with it, but don't want her to miss out if she thinks it would be fun and she would feel more confident. Plus I think it would be sexy as hell.
A little background - my wife and I have been married for 19 years, we have a very strong relationship and no concerns in this area. For a while I have had reoccurring thoughts of her being with another man. This would be quite significant for her, as she has only ever fucked me. She was from a conservative background and we married young. We have quite a decent sex life for people that have been married a number of years. She is 39 years old and I would describe her as very sexy with a hot body.
I have raised with her the possibility of me being OK with her to be with another man. Part of this comes from me thinking I would enjoy watching her, but also I have really felt bad for her only experiencing me. Because I was her first, she has always felt bad that she couldn't just enter a relationship experienced and confident when it came to sex. I explained to her that I thought she may lack a little confidence because she has never had to respond to any other men being interested or trying to get with her. She agreed that it might have had an effect and it would have been nice to experience that, but it's not something that overly concerns her. However, some of the things she said while we were talking and her body language makes me feel she is curious about other men.
Is anyone interested in doing some tributes for her? And when the time is right I will show her and prove to her that she would easily be able to find another guy to be with for fun and men find her attractive. I think her upbringing may have convinced her that sex isn't meant to be that fun and the pleasure shouldn't be shared with others. This might help her decide if it's something she wants to pursue. I'm not too worried if she doesn't through with it, but don't want her to miss out if she thinks it would be fun and she would feel more confident. Plus I think it would be sexy as hell.
