Question about the bulls who become longterm boyfriends

[goodboysoul]

My wife had two steady long term lovers.
They were the only ones who had unprotected sex with her.
Another very important advantage of having a long term relationship is that boundaries disappear. At least in our case.

Did you try to enforce boundaries that were crossed or did you agree to drop them

We’ve constantly had boundary issues

 

[Richd]

My hotwife’s regular Bulls were always married. This way they weren’t interested in a relationship, they just wanted some fun (as did we!). I think married guys work best. It’s purely a sex thing where all consenting adults get something out of it! Some of hers ex-Bulls were military guys which were away from home in the week and would often have whole night stays with my hotwife. They’d fuck all evening, often through the night and always again in the morning. She always came home fully satisfied and tired from lack of ......! Being married and being long term meant that they both got to know what each other liked. Was a win-win.

 

[dinoo-2]

Did you try to enforce boundaries that were crossed or did you agree to drop them

We’ve constantly had boundary issues

By 'another very important advantage of having a long-term relationship is that boundaries disappear', I mean it's more of a mental thing.
Let's say that any reluctance disappeared.
With my wife's two regular lovers, she became a fully liberated woman. Or, having no reluctance at all.
This doesn't mean that there were strangers with whom she wasn't fully liberated. Fortunately.
It depends of course if there existed a certain level of chemistry. Whatever that might be.

From the outset, we didn't have any boundaries or rules in our lifestyle.
This was to avoid arguments about what could or couldn't.
An very clear example is French kissing.
If the male partner can't accept this, I think that he takes away a natural expression of being very satisfied.
Okay, you have to know that I never wasn't jealous at all.

So I can imagine that people have other principles. Quite usual I think.

 

[goodboysoul]

By 'another very important advantage of having a long-term relationship is that boundaries disappear', I mean it's more of a mental thing.
Let's say that any reluctance disappeared.
With my wife's two regular lovers, she became a fully liberated woman. Or, having no reluctance at all.
This doesn't mean that there were strangers with whom she wasn't fully liberated. Fortunately.
It depends of course if there existed a certain level of chemistry. Whatever that might be.

From the outset, we didn't have any boundaries or rules in our lifestyle.
This was to avoid arguments about what could or couldn't.
An very clear example is French kissing.
If the male partner can't accept this, I think that he takes away a natural expression of being very satisfied.
Okay, you have to know that I never wasn't jealous at all.

So I can imagine that people have other principles. Quite usual I think.

Yeah we have had a lot of boundary cross about communication, what’s allowed in the bedroom etc and my wife always breaks it

 

[Ht805cpl]

We've had a similar experience. The single guys are always to busy to reconnect and get together with us less often. As it turns out, married men are the ones that are most likely to play with us long term. We've had single guys that visit and we don't see them again for a month or so and sometimes never see them again but our married Bulls are always reliable and appreciative of the time with a 'hotwife'.

However, some of the married guys don't want their wives in on it. That's fine with us, we're not trying to mess up anyone's relationships we just want some wild fun from time to time. The married men we've seen would drop by a few times a week. Some we were very long term friends but most married men were 'dating' me for around a year. Some moved away out of state unfortunately, so we found other Bulls to play with ;-)

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Exactly! Single guys may want a second or third time but they are hit n miss and usually when they can’t get a date and are horny, where as married men fooling around are either married to a woman not into sex or who is but not that good at sex and once they find a married woman willing to have crazy wild sex with them on an on going basis they are all in for the long haul and will find ways to make time for day sex night sex, weekend sex and get away for a time sex if the woman if good enough. Stick with married men. They tend not to kiss and tell are clean and drama free.