I wish I could help you out my queen.
I'm only caged when watching my wife, I find 3-4 hours is plenty. If I start to get hard it can get uncomfortable. I do find it better to be caged when watching though Wouldn't want to be a long term wearer or a permanent wearer, no way
Sian thank you, that is my concern, I do not want him to loose his erection or his big size I just want to restrain him now and then while I’m with my lover as well as I want to see his big dick swell in the cage as he becomes erect. Non erect he is big but erect he almost doubles in size so it would be a painful experience I think. So I am assuming you start with the size best for him and in time you graduate down as he shrinks.
Yes this what I am thinking but afraid of my devilish ways I may want to leave it on longer and longer. Often I am with my lover for two days so I’m wondering if that is too long to keep it on. I’d love to see him spurting his juice caged watching that is when I know he is enjoying it. I’ve tied him up on chair unable to touch him self and watch him cum so I think it might have same effect. Do you experience ejaculation while caged watching your wife? This is all so new to me.
No never ejaculated in it, that's for later when released. Does your husband get hard watching you. I do (or did) the secret is not to get too hard which does get easier when watching regular like I do every week
Yes he gets super hard both watching or being in the living room listening knowing his wife is fucking another man. He is on the large size so I would hate to ruin that as I love when he takes me after my bf leaves.
Long term wear causing shrinkage or leading to erectile dysfunction is a myth, you have nothing to worry about unless there is an unsafe cage or practice done that causes physical harm. however that's the same risk of wearing jeans that are too tight or playing sports. Like anything else, male chastity is about common sense and most of the stories you will hear about someone being locked up permanently and never let out for months at a time is just a fantasy or pillow talk.
Thank you for the information. You'd think for a wife or couple who's been in the lifestyle so long I'd know more about this topic, but unfortunately, I know little of it. I have seen men caged before at clubs but had no interaction with them. It is a topic we've been discussing, he's not too keen on the idea but I am, and as our life style today has moved to a borderline hot wife cuckold relationship, at least for the current time I am exploring ideas. This is just a role play game for us as all things we've been into. Like you said a Lifestyle or kinks shared among two loving people who have been together for a very long time.
