Random question on facials

[isthisforme]

Ok, so I’ve been made fun of for this but when I’m asked what kinks I have I often say I’ve fantasized (but never had) a ‘romantic, respectful facial’

Do you all think that is a thing or am I a dork for thinking that it is?

 

[ShadowJUK]

Ok, so I’ve been made fun of for this but when I’m asked what kinks I have I often say I’ve fantasized (but never had) a ‘romantic, respectful facial’

Do you all think that is a thing or am I a dork for thinking that it is?

I'm not sure. What, in your mind, makes it romantic and respectful?

For what it is worth, in my experience a facial is an act of dominance (if I'm in control) or outright sub (if she is). I wouldn't describe either as romantic. Respectful is a bit harder to gauge; but I'd err on not based on your combination with romantic.

 

[isthisforme]

I'm not sure. What, in your mind, makes it romantic and respectful?

For what it is worth, in my experience a facial is an act of dominance (if I'm in control) or outright sub (if she is). I wouldn't describe either as romantic. Respectful is a bit harder to gauge; but I'd err on not based on your combination with romantic.

That is fair. I suppose you’re right and I can definitely see the dominance angle from the males perspective. The way I view as romantic, in a way, is that I am giving myself to a man so completely to allow him to do that and maybe in my silly brain I equate that to a bit of romanticism

 

[ShadowJUK]

That is fair. I suppose you’re right and I can definitely see the dominance angle from the males perspective. The way I view as romantic, in a way, is that I am giving myself to a man so completely to allow him to do that and maybe in my silly brain I equate that to a bit of romanticism

Then I think that describes my option 2, where she is in control of things.

So to answer your original question, yes that is absolutely a thing.

 

[isthisforme]

Then I think that describes my option 2, where she is in control of things.

So to answer your original question, yes that is absolutely a thing.

Thank you, that perspective makes sense I think for sure

 

[Detorion6364]

I think having a man cum on your face and open mouth is so much more intimate than cumming in her pussy.

When I talk and communicate with a woman I look her in her eyes and at her sexy lips and imagine what it would be like to cum on those lips and tongue. Also this is where her brain is and who she really is and to have her take me in her mouth and not stop until I cum. For me this is the most erotic place to cum.

So yes it is romantic, naughty, submissive and so intimate, and sexy all at the same time. It just blows my mind ……. Along with my cum load.

 

[Revohash35]

I had an ex that loved getting facialized. She would always check it out in the mirror after and comment on how large the load was. Definitely respectful and something fun between us.

Wife doesnt mind a facial. Doesnt enjoy it like the ex did, but its definitely not something degrading with her. It is actually kind of romantic after when I am wiping my cum off her face.

Just have to find the right girl. Those are the only 2 I have been with out of like 15 or so that let me cum on their face. Just ask and let them know what you want in a respectful way and someone will agree.

 

[Blxx]

A sex act is whatever the parties involved make it. A facial could be the man dominating the woman or ot could be the woman taking ownership of it and just being fucking sexy.

No need to label it can be both or neither only thing that matters is your having a good time!

 

[nycelegantgeorg]

Ok, so I’ve been made fun of for this but when I’m asked what kinks I have I often say I’ve fantasized (but never had) a ‘romantic, respectful facial’

Do you all think that is a thing or am I a dork for thinking that it is?

I specialize in this exact service.

 

[Happy Mom]

To me facials are romantic as long as both parties want it. When I’m passionate with men and use my talents to get them to cum it is romantic. Weather I slowly drain it or they face fuck me. Weather I swallow or have it all over me, it’s romantic.

 

[kumabear75]

It all very much boils down to the who, what and why. I used to be of the camp that it was purely an act of dominance on the guy's part and women find it humiliating, but over the years I've come to realise that a sizeable minority of women enjoy it. So if it comes up (pun intended), I leave it to my partner to decide. But she must want it for herself, not just to please me.

 

[dinoo-2]

It all very much boils down to the who, what and why. I used to be of the camp that it was purely an act of dominance on the guy's part and women find it humiliating, but over the years I've come to realise that a sizeable minority of women enjoy it. So if it comes up (pun intended), I leave it to my partner to decide. But she must want it for herself, not just to please me.

Leaving up to the partner is principally the best solution.

However, I have the experience that sometimes a woman likes to be submissive. In any case that is how my wife regularly reacted.
Although she had never had a proper facial, she loved it when she could “play” with cum using her tongue.
She also enjoyed having a lot of cum on her body.
She loved the taste, smell and texture of cum.
(Try to imagine that she presses cum out of a condom on a cock and licking that cock clean.)
Who am I to take these pleasures away from her?

 

[Vincenzo]

Ok, so I’ve been made fun of for this but when I’m asked what kinks I have I often say I’ve fantasized (but never had) a ‘romantic, respectful facial’

Do you all think that is a thing or am I a dork for thinking that it is?

Not at all