Real couples that have a steady bull-guy

[Loridan]

How do you decide when you'll get together with him? We all have lives and can't just drop everything to hook up.
Who calls who ?
Do you as a couple say something like....we aren't doing anything tomorrow, let's call him.
Do you as a couple talk about the fun you've had with him or what you're hoping to happen this time?
After he leaves...or the next day do you talk about it ?

For us wife or I know our secluded and if we're free on Friday (we always do this on a Friday, but not every Friday). One of us will say do you want to have him over? Answer is usually yes. Sometimes he texts us and we respond yes or no. It doesn't always line up. When we do confirm its always a day or two before and we look forward to it. We don't talk about it much but we both know it will be fun.
While he's with us there's a lot of relaxing naked and a lot of sex for sure. Its a fun time for all of us.
After he leaves we always get back in bed and fuck slow while we kiss before we go to ....... She never says anything like how much she likes the sex with him (its obvious as hell she likes it), she's never said anything like... that was soo good last night. We just go about our daily activities.
It started out with them having sex then he'd leave right after, I only watched, very short visits. We progressed to us taking turns with her. We both do her twice with lots of kissing and oral mixed in then they go one more downstairs without me befor he leaves. It takes away the very awkwardness for me of saying anything to him. What do you say to the guy after your wife had 3 hours of sex....thanks...see you soon...?

 

[JMNBABE]

Our situation is a bit different from "most" here (fantasy of reality) in that her Lovers are not aware that I know about their relationship (eventually anyway,most of them start at some level before I am aware she is involved again), but the questions apply:

How do you decide when you'll get together with him? We all have lives and can't just drop everything to hook up.

Because most of her Lovers are married, she makes herself available at their schedule. Many of their trysts take place on business trips, but she also enjoys being able to see them when not traveling, in a less stressful environment and with time to relax and enjoy each other versus having to squeeze things in between dinners, meeting, conferences, etc. So if they are able to get away when at home, she is very compliant with their availability......that means sometimes cancelling plans together, leaving something already in progress, things like that.

Who calls who ?

They generally call her, it causes less issues at home (for them). Her Lovers believe I think her calls are business calls. She runs the company and has a significant number of before and after hours calls as a result as well ascalls when we are out together. Once she is intimate with someone, she lets them know that she is pretty much available when they can safely get away (at home, again).

Do you as a couple say something like....we aren't doing anything tomorrow, let's call him.

This more comes upwhen we are playing around sexually, and I will ask her if she would rather be with him right now, which almost always garners a positive response which turns me on INTENSELY!! Knowing we are playing aorund and she is thinking about and wishing she was with her Lover.......which might result in her texting her current Lover, or calling him, to see if he is available. If they are planning ahead to meet at home, she usually knows that well in advance.

Do you as a couple talk about the fun you've had with him or what you're hoping to happen this time?

We talk about her Lovers and their trysts all the time, even years later about very special things that happened during their relationship. When she comes home from a business trip, I can't WAIT to hear about what went on while she was away. We have lots of discussions, both before they become intimate about and after, about how she hopes things will go if they become intimate, and how to make things happen in her current relationship.

After he leaves...or the next day do you talk about it ?

She has only twice brought a Lover to the house.....the first was a flop, he couldn't get it up worrying that I would show up unxpectedly.
Second time was a totally unplenned, they couldn't wait, she called me and tole me to GET OUT NOW they will be there in 15 minutes!! LOL That was her longest relationship with her Boss/Lover....I spent the evening teasing french fries and diet coke at McDonalds for aobut 3 hours. We definitely talked about THAT one, especially the mess they made of our bed!! He was VERY turned on making love in our "marital bed"!!

CW

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Yes, wife frequently sees two of her lovers. They could be considered her steady guys currently. In fact, we (the couple) maintain a kind of friendship or relationship of trust with these men.

This didn't happen by chance. Since we have a peculiar situation (the husband spends at least two weeks away from home almost every month due to work), knowing and maintaining relationships with lovers the wife enjoys fucking with, and the husband can also talk and interact with them on some erotic level, was a kind of solution or win-win situation.

When the husband isn't home, she always meets with one of them one week and with the other the following week. There's no set rule so on some occasions she's even had taken short trips with one of them. She also spends nights or weekends at their houses, and they (less commonly) do the same at ours.

Nevertheless, it's with these two men that wife takes most of the photos and videos we use to remember her intimate moments, the same ones that we largely share here with you on the site.

Yes, wife also goes out with other men, including during weeks when husband is in town. But she doesn't feel as comfortable with this exhibitionism, photos, and sexual role-playing in the same way she does with her two more of long-term partners.

Initially, husband used to accompany or participate in their trysts, watching or playing along. More recently, he just follows along via photos or camming. We love talking about what they got up to afterward!