Reasons wife won’t fuck someone else

Without a doubt some wives will say 'no' because they think that if THEY fuck someone else, it means their husband has permission to fuck someone else too. But it seems to me that most men who want their wife to be a hotwife, or to cuck them, don't want to fuck around themselves. It can be hard to get the wife to understand this.
 
There is known psychology behind this. If both are honestly turned on by it, both want it, and both are fully equal in the decision, fine. But a woman should never be forced, pressured, or emotionally cornered into sexual interaction with another man if she does not genuinely want it herself.

The more pressure a man puts behind something like that, the more likely he is to destroy her respect for him. Because then it stops being about mutual desire and becomes about his need being placed above her boundaries. Once a woman feels that her feelings matter less than his fantasy, something deep in the relationship is already breaking.

Even if she goes along with it, that does not prove real consent in spirit. People can agree outwardly while feeling hurt, conflicted, or pushed inside. And that is exactly where resentment, distance, and loss of respect begin.

You also risk creating a situation where she starts seeking it for herself, without you being part of it. And as we have seen here, some women end up losing interest in that part of the marriage with their husbands entirely.
 
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There is known psychology behind this. If both are honestly turned on by it, both want it, and both are fully equal in the decision, fine. But a woman should never be forced, pressured, or emotionally cornered into sexual interaction with another man if she does not genuinely want it herself.

The more pressure a man puts behind something like that, the more likely he is to destroy her respect for him. Because then it stops being about mutual desire and becomes about his need being placed above her boundaries. Once a woman feels that her feelings matter less than his fantasy, something deep in the relationship is already breaking.

Even if she goes along with it, that does not prove real consent in spirit. People can agree outwardly while feeling hurt, conflicted, or pushed inside. And that is exactly where resentment, distance, and loss of respect begin.

You also risk creating a situation where she starts seeking it for herself, without you being part of it. And as we have seen here, some women end up losing interest in that part of the marriage with their husbands entirely.
Yep no one should be forced or ...... into anything they don’t want to do. Doing it just to make the other person happy seems like a recipe for disaster. Both have to truly want to do it. Plus to me it’s not fun if my wife isn’t into it, that’s the entire point to me is for her to have even more orgasms not just for her to do it. I know I was one of her side pieces when she was married before me so I know deep inside she likes the idea and remembers the fun of it. Whether she wants that again is up to her.
 
I'm just curious - what if you meet a nice woman who is into it (MFM) and likes just as much as you and then then you have some great experiences and then after a few years - you still want to do it but she has sort of lost interest - - you would just give up and not bring it up or urge her to try it again?
 
The fact that they don't say it doesn't mean they don't want to do it. My wife had 2 lovers with me unaware. When I found out about the second betrayal I left her. We got back together after months and when I proposed to open the couple, his answer was no. So cheat on me yes but experience cuck didn't have the courage to do it. >It took me over a year to convince her until she let go and we did
 
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