Red Flags

[Kandjfun]

Probably won’t be a popular thread, but what’s some red flags for potential bulls or bulls people should look out for?

Our number one, doesn’t want to get tested or show current test results.
Number two, has a wife who isn’t interested in sex anymore. Most likely because he sucks in bed.

 

[Jimbo177]

Number 2 is not always true because some women have hormone issues .

 

[Kandjfun]

Number 2 is not always true because some women have hormone issues .

I’m just talking about our experience. The guys we have met that say their wife isn’t interested in sex don’t know how to make a woman cum and can’t recognize the difference between she’s enjoying something and a real orgasm. Of all the guys my wife has played with, other then me, only 2 have actually made her cum.

 

[Jimbo177]

Most men in the world have absolutely zero clue how to make a woman orgasm. But there are a few of us that do . But i understand what you’re talking about .

 

[kumabear75]

Probably won’t be a popular thread, but what’s some red flags for potential bulls or bulls people should look out for?

Our number one, doesn’t want to get tested or show current test results.
Number two, has a wife who isn’t interested in sex anymore. Most likely because he sucks in bed.

As a bull, I agree with No 1 but not No 2. There are a host of reasons why women deny their partners sex.

When I was young and naive, I really didn't think much, I just dived in. However, I've learnt to vet couples carefully. If they're not on the same page, I walk. They at the very least should know what they're into or willing to do. Similarly, anything in their opening conversations that doesn't add up.

 

[Anon321]

Good topic and an important one. Unfortunately in our experience it seems that the red flags don't start to come out until they've started fucking. So I guess the most important thing is communication beforehand and making sure they'll respect boundaries.

But even then we've still had guys constantly pushing the limits. Guys have tried to secretly pull off the condom or secretly pull out their phone for pictures and videos. Sometimes it's forsing sexual acts on her like anal, ass to mouth, etc. If you're in this game long enough and very active in this lifestyle with a lot of different partners then these things are bound to happen to you. And it might not always be the first or second experience you have with them but it can happen later.

 

[Bat boy]

A big red flag for us is if the the potential lover is way to eager, like on a simple let's meet date he may think she going to give it up even if she doesn't like him.