Anyone regrets sharing their wife? I'm not a chuck. I just to have a threesome with my wife
Regret
- Thread starter Mikegirth
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Hwcouple702
Thanks for your thoughtful insight. Before we met< in her earlier years she was very very promiscuous. So she's actually reentering a sexual life. I am sure you are correct about everything. Several years ago I believe I caught her cheating - she denied it, then finally confessed, the thing that stays in my mind is when she said 'they' were getting ready to have his friend join in, when I reminded her I had been trying get her into a 3-some for years and she refused why would she do it with him, she told me 'cause I'm married to you." I never understood that and still don't. By the way she recanted her confession.
Mikegirth
https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/is-this-the-start-or-the-end-part-1.5839/
It's a lot to read there are now 4 parts
Thanks for your thoughtful insight. Before we met< in her earlier years she was very very promiscuous. So she's actually reentering a sexual life. I am sure you are correct about everything. Several years ago I believe I caught her cheating - she denied it, then finally confessed, the thing that stays in my mind is when she said 'they' were getting ready to have his friend join in, when I reminded her I had been trying get her into a 3-some for years and she refused why would she do it with him, she told me 'cause I'm married to you." I never understood that and still don't. By the way she recanted her confession.
Mikegirth
https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/is-this-the-start-or-the-end-part-1.5839/
It's a lot to read there are now 4 parts
It’s probably the case that many husbands, and wives have regrets about the hot wife experience, and lifestyle. I think regret may vary, as short-term, or long-term for those who experience this kind of thing.
My wife was always promiscuous, even before we were married, and just dating, all the way through our engagement. She was never happily monogamous. I later found out that during our on-again/off-again engagement she had a number of affairs, and routinely cheated on me. There was a time in that period when I could only get hard when thinking about my fiancé fucking other men, and I suffered frequent, intense regret over how I felt, and the circumstances.
After we were married, she had several affairs, some one-night encounters, others longer term, which I was only suspicious of or otherwise failed to confront, again with regret - she would never openly have sex with other men with my involvement or consent, even though it was a two-decade effort to move her in that direction on my part.
After her desires were in the open, following the first thing we considered as an actual “hot wife” experience, we both had short-term regrets about various aspects of the experience. For me, watching the first time was both intensely erotic, and terrifying - I actually got nauseated, all while having the most raging hard-on ever. I didn’t suffer much regret after her first time, but she did, a roller-coaster of emotion, feeling like she was a dirty slut, a terrible wife, embarrassed at what I might have thought (she was a little ......, and totally uninhibited - either forgetting, or not even caring that I was in the room watching her getting fucked senseless, and fucking the guy senseless).
The biggest was in a period in which my wife had become insatiable, and overwhelmed with the desire to fuck strange men - encounter after encounter, sometimes more than one in a day, sometimes even with my objection for one reason or another. We even sought joint marital counseling in that time period. Telling our counselor about it was very odd; “My wife likes to have sex with strange men…” - eventually both my wife and I found it erotic to confess these experiences during counseling.
Eventually, probably three or four years into the experience, things leveled out for both of us - no short-term, or long-term regret, and we look back on the path as just the experience of sorting this out.
My wife was always promiscuous, even before we were married, and just dating, all the way through our engagement. She was never happily monogamous. I later found out that during our on-again/off-again engagement she had a number of affairs, and routinely cheated on me. There was a time in that period when I could only get hard when thinking about my fiancé fucking other men, and I suffered frequent, intense regret over how I felt, and the circumstances.
After we were married, she had several affairs, some one-night encounters, others longer term, which I was only suspicious of or otherwise failed to confront, again with regret - she would never openly have sex with other men with my involvement or consent, even though it was a two-decade effort to move her in that direction on my part.
After her desires were in the open, following the first thing we considered as an actual “hot wife” experience, we both had short-term regrets about various aspects of the experience. For me, watching the first time was both intensely erotic, and terrifying - I actually got nauseated, all while having the most raging hard-on ever. I didn’t suffer much regret after her first time, but she did, a roller-coaster of emotion, feeling like she was a dirty slut, a terrible wife, embarrassed at what I might have thought (she was a little ......, and totally uninhibited - either forgetting, or not even caring that I was in the room watching her getting fucked senseless, and fucking the guy senseless).
The biggest was in a period in which my wife had become insatiable, and overwhelmed with the desire to fuck strange men - encounter after encounter, sometimes more than one in a day, sometimes even with my objection for one reason or another. We even sought joint marital counseling in that time period. Telling our counselor about it was very odd; “My wife likes to have sex with strange men…” - eventually both my wife and I found it erotic to confess these experiences during counseling.
Eventually, probably three or four years into the experience, things leveled out for both of us - no short-term, or long-term regret, and we look back on the path as just the experience of sorting this out.
HighwayLife
Male
Thanks for sharing that. Wow is all I could think of while reading.
How is your relationship now?
Our relationship has never been better. We are in love, enjoy sex together, as well as her with other partners. We love new experiences, realizing shared fantasies, both the build-up to actualization, and the real thing, and the post-experience/afterglow of reliving the experience through hot, dirty bedroom talk.
My wife's self-confidence has increased a thousand-fold since we started this, and we're both comfortable, and experienced in creating intensely sexual, erotic experiences. My wife is my favorite personal "porn star," and she has never been happier - her desires are out in the open, satisfied, and she is comforted by my support and participation.
HighwayLife
Male
HighwayLife
Male
Wow that’s awesome - a true hot wife with a husband who loves it - so lucky! Helps that you live in Vegas. I think regret - the subject of this thread - is just a realistic emotion that most doing this have at times, but it’s normal and worth dealing with. Maybe Mr. HW occasionally has some regrets even if you don’t.
Well said and really good to hear the reality of mixed emotions at times and going through different phases of how much fucking of others is happening. Jealousy that you realize is so worth dealing with and regrets at one point from Mrs HW that fortunately she got over lol. Yes she is definitely a 10 and love that you both are sharing with us here - hope it makes it hotter for you! Keep it coming!