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Are any of you content in just the fantasy? Would the reality really live up to the fantasy? Me and my wife role play got abit extreme recently she actually said she would let a black guy fuck her when we was fucking when we talking dirty . I said would you let him in your ass . She said he can do whatever he wants . I was like wow okay !! Turned me on alot . We both after was like what did we just do! My wife laughed and said I wouldn't really let him in my ass . I laughed too . She said as much as she loves to role play it and it she means what she says during sex she doesn't feel the same after we finished. She said she don't think she could do the reality thing and I agreed. The way she spoke throwed me back enough lol I was abit shocked never expected it . She never been into black guys. Once I showed her IR porn and we talk about it she gets so wet and creamy but we both agreed the fantasy will always be better! We don't wanna ruin expectations if it ever happend in real life it would maybe ruin our relationship and the sex she has with the 3rd person might be disappointing and she would feel bad ! I didn't really expect to feel this way until she actually opened up to me properly I thought wow she is actually kinda serious and it made me think twice if it's what I want as much I love it
 
Yeah we both do love it and we say we do mean what we say during sex but after when we both cum and we are back to reality we don't think we could make it a real because we have such a strong relationship
Not everyone is the same, me and my wife first did swinging together later on I realise I enjoyed it more when she enjoy sex with other guys especially well endowed ones . I enjoyed the mixed feelings and it truly brought us closer together. I arranged sex partners for her on a regular basis and I enjoyed sloppy seconds more than often. I think it’s whatever floats your boat. Just make sure whatever you do is what both of you wanted. You must have a very strong bond and no place for jealousy. Take very small steps if not sure . Best of luck
 
Not everyone is the same, me and my wife first did swinging together later on I realise I enjoyed it more when she enjoy sex with other guys especially well endowed ones . I enjoyed the mixed feelings and it truly brought us closer together. I arranged sex partners for her on a regular basis and I enjoyed sloppy seconds more than often. I think it’s whatever floats your boat. Just make sure whatever you do is what both of you wanted. You must have a very strong bond and no place for jealousy. Take very small steps if not sure . Best of luck
We spoke about swinging saying we wouldn't mind going along when our kids have grown up abit more to see what it's like out of curiosity. We are a naughty couple we are very open with each other we done everything in the bedroom as a couple been together for 12 years so it's only normal to be open we have great communication with each other. I'm genuinely concerned we will take the leap one day though we are too naughty when we are horny I hope we keep it a fantasy though if I'm honest
 
Pretty much if I was game she would I think
yep a friend of mine put it like this, I can fantasize but I am not ready to see her stomach being pushed up by a dude's pole as he rams her intestines upward. And the sad part is, she will be grinning while this is going down.
 
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yep a friend of mine put it like this, I can fantasize but I am not ready to see her stomach being pushed up by a dude's pole as he rams her intestines upward. And the sad part is, she will be grinning while this is going down.
Yeah hahaha . The thing is with my wife as great as our sex life is we been together since we was young. Been together 12 years she's 28 I'm 32 ..we got 2 kids together..she only slept with me apart from 1 guy she lost her virginity too , so me encouraging this fantasy she probably is thinking well if his giving me permission why not one day do it ? I slept with like 16 women before I got with her so that's why I'm not worried about fucking other women so much . She probably is normal to crave it a little and I wouldn't blame her ..she even says she means it when we fuck and she's horny but when back to reality it's not what she wants but she might lol
 
Yeah hahaha . The thing is with my wife as great as our sex life is we been together since we was young. Been together 12 years she's 28 I'm 32 ..we got 2 kids together..she only slept with me apart from 1 guy she lost her virginity too , so me encouraging this fantasy she probably is thinking well if his giving me permission why not one day do it ? I slept with like 16 women before I got with her so that's why I'm not worried about fucking other women so much . She probably is normal to crave it a little and I wouldn't blame her ..she even says she means it when we fuck and she's horny but when back to reality it's not what she wants but she might lol
I think she’s more ready than you but take small steps and see if you both will like it with no regrets. Does the idea turns you on when thinking about it when not having sex ?
 
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If she means it during sex, that tells me she is interested in taking it to another level. She just has to be excited, horny and turned on enough right before the opportunity presents itself, and then I think she’s all for it.
 
If she means it during sex, that tells me she is interested in taking it to another level. She just has to be excited, horny and turned on enough right before the opportunity presents itself, and then I think she’s all for it.
This is it .. say a black guy knocked on our hotel room door half way through the session and she was horny af she would probably go through with it . I said during it the other day what would you do if a black guy knocked on our door right now she said she would suck his cock and then let him fuck her from behind whilst I watch
 
This is it .. say a black guy knocked on our hotel room door half way through the session and she was horny af she would probably go through with it . I said during it the other day what would you do if a black guy knocked on our door right now she said she would suck his cock and then let him fuck her from behind whilst I watch
terrific thats 80% of the way there, how about you coordinate things so evrything plays out the exact wawy? Find the guy, plan, time have him wait outise then signal him somehow, text him, he comes in while shes blidfolded, and bam!
 
terrific thats 80% of the way there, how about you coordinate things so evrything plays out the exact wawy? Find the guy, plan, time have him wait outise then signal him somehow, text him, he comes in while shes blidfolded, and bam!
That's a hot scenario 🔥🔥 I'd like to make her aware his coming though I'd need her permission. She said after we did it I wouldn't really let him in my ass if we did it in real life 😏 then I said ud actually like a threesome? She hesitated and said and giggled no I wouldn't really but if I asked her the question in the past she wouldn't of hesitated and said no I definitely wouldn't that's what made me think she wants it . We got a young family at the moment as I said I'm 32 she's 28 so in a few years to come who knows! I only had her in this fantasy properly for like 2 months when I told her about it . She knew the hints around March last year when we got our first black dildo but didn't mention the whole fantasy until May this year I sent her some bbc fucking white pussy gifs and she was like ergh I don't like that. Same night cuddles up to me asking me to watch the porn I like watching I never see her get so wet and stringy in all my life her pussy said it all and the rest is history lol
 
This is it .. say a black guy knocked on our hotel room door half way through the session and she was horny af she would probably go through with it . I said during it the other day what would you do if a black guy knocked on our door right now she said she would suck his cock and then let him fuck her from behind whilst I watch
There’s your truthful and honest answer right there. The hardest part is already done, something a lot of guys are no where even close to the position you’re currently at, and wish they were. When I first brought it up to Robin she was also kind of against the idea, turned out it was only because of her upbringing and her ex husbands feelings. I on the other hand, was extremely turned on by the idea, and it just took us being in the right place at the right time, and yes, she was slightly under the influence and horny! Her curiosity and desires ended up getting the best of her, and it turned out to be one of our favorite moments. So the next question is, do you have a friend or know a black guy that would available to have around, maybe to come over for a visit? This is one of the pictures from that night, a night I’ll never forget!
 

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There’s your truthful and honest answer right there. The hardest part is already done, something a lot of guys are no where even close to the position you’re currently at, and wish they were. When I first brought it up to Robin she was also kind of against the idea, turned out it was only because of her upbringing and her ex husbands feelings. I on the other hand, was extremely turned on by the idea, and it just took us being in the right place at the right time, and yes, she was slightly under the influence and horny! Her curiosity and desires ended up getting the best of her, and it turned out to be one of our favorite moments. So the next question is, do you have a friend or know a black guy that would available to have around, maybe to come over for a visit? This is one of the pictures from that night, a night I’ll never forget!
I wouldn't personally want it to be a friend if we was to consider it in the future . I think a swinging club would maybe be the best way to break it in go there and get her horny she said she would be open to swinging clubs when we are abit older out of curiosity so think it would be the a good place to start . It's obvious she would do it in the moment as I said even when she's sex sober she says she means what she says during sex but when we are back to reality she says she wouldn't do it for real
 
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I really like these two pics because it shows her tiny little fingers as she’s helping him get his BBC inside her tight little pussy! In the video, I loved the part where she tells him, “you’re popping my cherry!”
 

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