Sex parties... the good and the bad

First wife and I did a fair amount of "swinging" together (was the heyday of it) and it didn't take me long to realize I brought better pussy to the party than I got!! Guys would bring their wives because the COMPLETELY sucked in bed because of their refusals to do things, or they would hook up with some superfat hog to bring and turn loose on the rest of us to avoid, had TERRIBLE hygeine and plenty of explanations as to why it was OK, some picked up hookers to bring just to get in, some brought wives TOTALLY unaware of where they wre going!!! And finding a couple where all 4 of you hit it off well enough to have fun as couples was nearly impossible too...someone was always compromising in those situations and who wants to be someones compromise.......too often I was doing the compromising too.......and I HATED it when she did it "for me".

I realized pretty quickly that I had a LOT more fun being with my fantastic in bed wife after she had been with guys SHE enjoyed being with and hearing about her fun and excitement. And that is how I realized that a semi-cuckold type of relationship was MUCH more preferable to me.

So when wife #2 (also fantastic in bed!!) came home with a story about how a guy at work was paying too much attention to her and she was infatuated with it, I told her to encourage him and see where it goes........and when she asked if I wanted to be able to meet couples so I "got something out of it" I gave her a resounding NNOOO!!! And that is how it has gone this time around too.......I MUCH prefer great sex with one woman over BAD sex with many. Did a lot of that in high school and college, had more than my share of it, and I prefer quality to quantity. In every aspect of my life also....not just women. CW