My girl is a petite 33 year old asian, been together for almost 7 years and I’ve been having a fantasy of sharing her with other men for a couple of years now. I’ve been trying to convince her to be shared but she won’t budge. I tell her we can find someone who can last longer but she always turns it down and says no. Should I try to keep convincing her or just let it go and stay a fantasy? I do have dreams every now and then of her fucking other men. She is pretty vanilla when it comes to to sex/sexual things and I feel that contributes to her answer. Thoughts?
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Should I post some nudes of her to show how she looks? Let me know!
Your question isn't easy to answer. There are many reports and exchanges of experiences in the forum. I think that's valuable.
There are many reasons why a woman might not be convinced (or not right away). You have to find out the real reasons. It can be complex. The important thing is not to put any pressure on her, to make her feel good, and to show her that you love her. She needs to understand your motives. That's not always easy. Be patient, respect her, and show her that you love her!👍
Oh, and of course, the community is curious about your wife! Feel free to share pictures of her!😉
There are many reasons why a woman might not be convinced (or not right away). You have to find out the real reasons. It can be complex. The important thing is not to put any pressure on her, to make her feel good, and to show her that you love her. She needs to understand your motives. That's not always easy. Be patient, respect her, and show her that you love her!👍
Oh, and of course, the community is curious about your wife! Feel free to share pictures of her!😉
Thank you for the kind message! I always tell her she looks good and men would want her lol but I will definitely share a pic of her on here! Here’s a pic of her front view body!
OMG! She is so hot! Love petite asian wives!
I agree with dido333. When you first bring it up it's a lot for her to process. it's not something most women expect to hear. And her societal programming tells her it's not right, not normal. Plus, there's all the fears that go with it. Does this mean he doesn't love me? Is he trying to break up with me so that he can have sex with other women?
Even if she feels or knows your actions are pure, she still might have body issues that makes her feel unsexy or afraid at the prospect of having sex outside her marriage.
Lots to work on. But don't give up. It takes time. Start slow. Roleplay if she is open to it. Don't push too much. Make it fun, and fun for her. You have to make it such that she feels sexy and safe.
Thank you for the advice! I don’t even want to play with other women. Just want to watch her do some 1on1 play! Will definitely keep talking to her about it and assure her we can find someone trust worthy and will treat her good and all that stuff!
You'll do great! Lot's of great posts on here to help. My wife has been a hotwife for just over 3 years now. Took her 4-5 years to come around to the idea. Now she loves it. Feel free to DM me if you ever want to chat. Cheers!
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