She’s just not into being shared… but I don’t believe her.

Respectfully, I respect my wife. She simply doesn’t want to be shared. She only wants me. That’s more than fine. We have a great marriage and that’s more important. However, I find it hard to believe she wouldn’t be into it since she used to be a little bit a of a sugar baby. This older man used to buy her outfits, lingerie, tie her up in a hotel room, edge her and fuck her. She likes a man in control… but confidently gentle but a little aggressive and knows when to care… but knows when to fuck her hard from behind. SO…. We’ve at least started some of the conversation. She knows I’m into it. She knows I fantasize about it. And she knows I share her photos. And that’s where we’re at.

What man wouldn’t wanna dive into this ass? She’s been working so hard in the gym for the past 4 months and she been getting stronger and her ass is becoming so firm that I’m drooling more and more IMG_8263.jpeg
 
Respectfully, I respect my wife. She simply doesn’t want to be shared. She only wants me. That’s more than fine. We have a great marriage and that’s more important. However, I find it hard to believe she wouldn’t be into it since she used to be a little bit a of a sugar baby. This older man used to buy her outfits, lingerie, tie her up in a hotel room, edge her and fuck her. She likes a man in control… but confidently gentle but a little aggressive and knows when to care… but knows when to fuck her hard from behind. SO…. We’ve at least started some of the conversation. She knows I’m into it. She knows I fantasize about it. And she knows I share her photos. And that’s where we’re at.

What man wouldn’t wanna dive into this ass? She’s been working so hard in the gym for the past 4 months and she been getting stronger and her ass is becoming so firm that I’m drooling more and more View attachment 3068732
She looks hot, I want that to happen too with my wife and see her get fucked by another man
 
She looks hot, I want that to happen too with my wife and see her get fucked by another man
Very, very familiar with this situation and I’ve still not had the mmf sharing fantasy come to fruition yet but we’re much closer than a year ago.
Of course the discussion and open sharing of feelings is paramount. I found we’ve both come further into our interest in this kink by my gradually nudging her about my fantasy of a big bull joining us and stretching her out in front of me, whatever she wants strictly for her enjoyment and I started buying her dildos that are larger than me and increasing dual play and therefore her desire through “double teaming”.
I encourage her to talk and say little things during sex about it being another guy. She’s actually, finally agreed tentatively to the idea of a threesome and we’re talking with a guy who likely fits the bill!
Good luck to you and best wishes for us all.
 
Very, very familiar with this situation and I’ve still not had the mmf sharing fantasy come to fruition yet but we’re much closer than a year ago.
Of course the discussion and open sharing of feelings is paramount. I found we’ve both come further into our interest in this kink by my gradually nudging her about my fantasy of a big bull joining us and stretching her out in front of me, whatever she wants strictly for her enjoyment and I started buying her dildos that are larger than me and increasing dual play and therefore her desire through “double teaming”.
I encourage her to talk and say little things during sex about it being another guy. She’s actually, finally agreed tentatively to the idea of a threesome and we’re talking with a guy who likely fits the bill!
Good luck to you and best wishes for us all.
Hopefully it’s awesome!
 
Step by step. Don't rush it, talk to her.
Respectfully, I respect my wife. She simply doesn’t want to be shared. She only wants me. That’s more than fine. We have a great marriage and that’s more important. However, I find it hard to believe she wouldn’t be into it since she used to be a little bit a of a sugar baby. This older man used to buy her outfits, lingerie, tie her up in a hotel room, edge her and fuck her. She likes a man in control… but confidently gentle but a little aggressive and knows when to care… but knows when to fuck her hard from behind. SO…. We’ve at least started some of the conversation. She knows I’m into it. She knows I fantasize about it. And she knows I share her photos. And that’s where we’re at.

What man wouldn’t wanna dive into this ass? She’s been working so hard in the gym for the past 4 months and she been getting stronger and her ass is becoming so firm that I’m drooling more and more
Don't rush, talk to her.
It's not the same. A sugar baby relationship is usually based on a financial or lifestyle exchange, where companionship or intimacy may come with material support. The dynamics of an hot wife are very much based on communication and strong relationship boundaries. When she understands that you want this and trusts her, she will find the courage to pursue her lust.
 
Respectfully, I respect my wife. She simply doesn’t want to be shared. She only wants me. That’s more than fine. We have a great marriage and that’s more important. However, I find it hard to believe she wouldn’t be into it since she used to be a little bit a of a sugar baby. This older man used to buy her outfits, lingerie, tie her up in a hotel room, edge her and fuck her. She likes a man in control… but confidently gentle but a little aggressive and knows when to care… but knows when to fuck her hard from behind. SO…. We’ve at least started some of the conversation. She knows I’m into it. She knows I fantasize about it. And she knows I share her photos. And that’s where we’re at.

What man wouldn’t wanna dive into this ass? She’s been working so hard in the gym for the past 4 months and she been getting stronger and her ass is becoming so firm that I’m drooling more and more View attachment 3068732
I firmly believe that every woman wants 2 cocks at once at least one time. What holds them back is they're worried about us and how we'll handle it and how they will be perceived afterwards
 
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Take your time and put her in positions/places where she can talk to guys. Drop her off at the door to the bar while you park the car but take s little longer to go inside. Get an urgent call you need to take etc.

Eventually she’ll make a connection, someone who she meets and just wants to fuck, women are like men too lol but she knows you’re ok with it. Role play on it after as she probably won't fuck the first guy she connects with but her thinking in it.
 
Step by step. Don't rush it, talk to her.

Don't rush, talk to her.
It's not the same. A sugar baby relationship is usually based on a financial or lifestyle exchange, where companionship or intimacy may come with material support. The dynamics of an hot wife are very much based on communication and strong relationship boundaries. When she understands that you want this and trusts her, she will find the courage to pursue her lust.
Interesting perspective. Never thought of it like that. I just figured it was an open “sexual idea” as opposed to two different things. Like a one time hook up.
 
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I’m in the same boat man! My wife was definitely wild when she was younger I’ve known her since we were 16. I’ve talked to her about sharing her and she says she doesn’t want to do it. She loves using toys in the bedroom and occasionally she will roleplay scenarios for me, if I ask her. I’m not quite sure what my next steps should be either, it’s crazy because she has no problems with me fucking her with a big dildo and getting her to tell me how much she loves the big cock pounding her tight little pussy. I’d love to watch her get pounded by a big cock!IMG_1765.png
 
I’m in the same boat man! My wife was definitely wild when she was younger I’ve known her since we were 16. I’ve talked to her about sharing her and she says she doesn’t want to do it. She loves using toys in the bedroom and occasionally she will roleplay scenarios for me, if I ask her. I’m not quite sure what my next steps should be either, it’s crazy because she has no problems with me fucking her with a big dildo and getting her to tell me how much she loves the big cock pounding her tight little pussy. I’d love to watch her get pounded by a big cock!View attachment 3083685
Ditto for my situation, the past experiences, I loved when mine finally revealed after many years about the biggest she ever had. That was before we got together at 18 but she likes talking about it and loves me using her realistic 10-12” dildo on her while watching gangbang porn, dp’ing with my cock and sucking another big dildo. I’m holding out hope that it’s a matter of time before she agrees to actually experience this fantasy live.
 

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