She’s officially a Hotwife!!

Sounds like things are really moving along for you!! Hopefully soon she will have fulfilled this fantasy and things can go even further forward for you guys. Hopefully she’s having fun and enjoying how this is all coming together. Slow and steady with an ultimate goal in mind is key. Continue to keep us posted!
 
I could barely fall asleep last night after our talk. Just so exciting. She’s really starting to realize all women needs to learn to connect with their vaginas. Not be so much in your own head.

Just the fact she does find it hot thinking about sex with a more “stud” man is just so exhilarating for me to.
shes on the path
 
sounds like she has really come around to the idea. She has picked the guy from work by the sounds of it and wants to groom him to join you. Is she flirty texting him?
getting him into the right mind before she starts to get hot and heavy with him?
No it’s not flirty texting but she did mention grooming him? It was a lot to talk about in the hottub. She does have a connection with him though. Not sure how sexual?
 
No it’s not flirty texting but she did mention grooming him? It was a lot to talk about in the hottub. She does have a connection with him though. Not sure how sexual?
have you had a look at her phone? how is she grooming him? it sounds like she has a great connection with him, and he might be the one that takes her to the next stage. if she grooming, it has to have a sexual element, if not what is she grooming him for?
 
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have you had a look at her phone? how is she grooming him? it sounds like she has a great connection with him, and he might be the one that takes her to the next stage. if she grooming, it has to have a sexual element, if not what is she grooming him for?
Yes you could totally be right. I’m actually not sure she just said it. We were discussing lots so I guess it kinda got lost in translation. I feel she is feeling him out or wants to groom him? He would be a safe guy to start with since he’s so nice and they already have a connection. Wait and see!
 
oh she is really warming up To having a boyfriend, although its not a good idea to have someone from work, sometimes its a safe avenue, and someone she already knows and likes. Maybe its time for her to go out for drinks or lunch. So hot dude, your almost there. Don't forgoet your friends here on WWP.


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oh she is really warming up To having a boyfriend, although its not a good idea to have someone from work, sometimes its a safe avenue, and someone she already knows and likes. Maybe its time for her to go out for drinks or lunch. So hot dude, your almost there. Don't forgoet your friends here on WWP.


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Oh I’m sure we will talk about it and I agree it’s probsbly not the best idea with someone on a work level. We’re getting closer! I’m so thankful for my friends on WifeWantstoPlay!
 
Another update from the hottub last night. Melissa said she had a dream where she picked up a guy at a resort we were at. She was having sex with him in our room when I walked in on them but I wasn’t mad. Obviously her subconscious is thinking about it.

We got to talking about hotwifing and she said again she is really open to it and really wants to get to where I am with it. We talked about different sexual things and I told her again that I want to watch her have sex with other men and she defiantly thinks it’s hot.

She also admitted to having an attraction to an old bf we saw at the farmers market last summer. She said she was instantly drawn to him. Another guy who she’s gotten to know through work she said she’s been group messaging through work with him. Lately they’ve been having private messages like he was confusing in Melissa about his gf not working out etc. She admitted to me she is attracted to him in a certain way. Then she said she feels like she almost wants to groom him!? I took it as he’s a safe guy to start with? Groom him for sex?
very hot that she is has dreams about fucking other cocks while you watch.
 
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If "grooming" him means that she's trying to get him used to the idea of a sexual/physical relationship, then I'm all for it. Is he married? Single? Married men are much more likely to engage in a sexual relationship, where a single guy might get confused about the idea and start thinking that she's looking for a new life partner. You might want to discuss the pitfalls of a single guy "falling in love" with her and the complications that could lead to.
As far as work relationships go, care must be taken when engaging with work colleagues. A sex partner at work treads a fine line. If he's mature enough to understand the dynamic and both of them approach it maturely, everything should be fine, but depending on each one's position as manager/subordinate, could lead to one, or both of them losing their job.
 
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If "grooming" him means that she's trying to get him used to the idea of a sexual/physical relationship, then I'm all for it. Is he married? Single? Married men are much more likely to engage in a sexual relationship, where a single guy might get confused about the idea and start thinking that she's looking for a new life partner. You might want to discuss the pitfalls of a single guy "falling in love" with her and the complications that could lead to.
As far as work relationships go, care must be taken when engaging with work colleagues. A sex partner at work treads a fine line. If he's mature enough to understand the dynamic and both of them approach it maturely, everything should be fine, but depending on each one's position as manager/subordinate, could lead to one, or both of them losing their job.
To me it seems she might be considering him because it’s a safe choice? They actually don’t work at the same place just in the same field. He has a gf and they live together but I guess he was kind of confiding in my wife about some troubles they’re having.
 
To me it seems she might be considering him because it’s a safe choice? They actually don’t work at the same place just in the same field. He has a gf and they live together but I guess he was kind of confiding in my wife about some troubles they’re having.
Classic male technique to get a woman to sympathize with him. Complain about current wife/GF/SO to gain sympathy and produce tender feelings towards him. Also lets her know that he'd be interested in finding an outlet for his needs. He's definitely interested in her. As long as they don't work for the same company, no HR issues then. She might want to find out if his girlfriend is the crazy type that will "burn him down" if she finds out he's cheating on her. That could get messy.
 
Classic male technique to get a woman to sympathize with him. Complain about current wife/GF/SO to gain sympathy and produce tender feelings towards him. Also lets her know that he'd be interested in finding an outlet for his needs. He's definitely interested in her. As long as they don't work for the same company, no HR issues then. She might want to find out if his girlfriend is the crazy type that will "burn him down" if she finds out he's cheating on her. That could get messy.
No they don’t work at the same place just in the same field. But she’s not going back to her job next year and is trying to find something different. I agree with you I guarantee he likes my wife. I just hope it’s not a situation where he’s trying to “be” with her. That could get awkward.
 
Ok her mind must be starting to change quickly. I just got home from taking our kids skiing. Wife was just resting in bed this morning and I told her I feel so horny today. She said to me yeah it’s weird when I was just laying in bed while you were gone I was just thinking about cocks. I said that’s great! Your mind must be starting to change.
 
So I asked Melissa in the hottub tonight what she was thinking about earlier with all the cock on her mind. She said my cock and other cocks just how pretty there are to look at. So I told her she should start looking at naked male porn, see what she likes. She said sure. I mentioned starting a profile on a SPAM site but she said not yet. In time!