She admitted it.

[Ben&cherry]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

 

[Aznhubby]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

That is great that she can talk to you in a way she knows it turns you on 🙌

 

[Jon Day]

My wife is the same. She gets turned on by it but the next step is just too much. Shame. We live in Suffolk UK

 

[Aznhubby]

My wife is the same. She gets turned on by it but the next step is just too much. Shame. We live in Suffolk UK

Hopefully there will be a perfect time and place she will feel comfortable and confident enough to take that step 👍

 

[Jon Day]

Hopefully there will be a perfect time and place she will feel comfortable and confident enough to take that step 👍

I hope so. She knows just how much I want her to have other guys. I don't want to be there but would if she wanted. I just need her to be a slut for me and me to clean up when she comes home. Her best friend knows how much it means to me.

 

[Vincenzo]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

Maybe have a buddy over and when she leaves the room have him strip naked for when she comes back in

 

[naughtydaniella]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

Just back off now and be patient in letting her bring it up, or you will run the risk of making her feeling forced and changing her mind.
The seed has been planted now just let it grow.
All the best.

 

[dickhurtz]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

it could happen organically. one day she might meet someone who rings her bell, next think you know.....

 

[Jon Day]

Hopefully there will be a perfect time and place she will feel comfortable and confident enough to take that step 👍

I really hope so

 

[UKDevil]

I dream of at least being in your situation, I don't even have the balls to talk to my partner about it yet but I've done a lot of research and they say it can take months or years to get to the stage where she actually goes through with it. Patience is key I'm guessing, are you well endowed? I'm just over 4 inches but my partner thinks I'm big 🤣 my point is... Maybe you should try using a cock sleeve if you're not big downstairs. Might put a spark in her brain as it were 👍

 

[Jon Day]

I'm big enough I think

 

[Jeanswatcher]

If a wife says the "idea" of being fucked by another male turns her on and she knows her husband is receptive to the idea, then its all about making opportunities for her, thats your role.

I would suggest that the majority of women unless it an affair at work etc few feel they can openly show an real active interest in the idea to their husband, unless an opportunity arises.... I also suspect most are reluctant as they assume, once they have crossed the line and tasted the forbidden fruit you will then want to too, and few normal women like that idea.

The real kinky girls often therefore find it easier to actually play on her own, without the complication of their husbands inclusion.

 

[southfly]

If a wife says the "idea" of being fucked by another male turns her on and she knows her husband is receptive to the idea, then its all about making opportunities for her, thats your role.

I would suggest that the majority of women unless it an affair at work etc few feel they can openly show an real active interest in the idea to their husband, unless an opportunity arises.... I also suspect most are reluctant as they assume, once they have crossed the line and tasted the forbidden fruit you will then want to too, and few normal women like that idea.

The real kinky girls often therefore find it easier to actually play on her own, without the complication of their husbands inclusion.

Agree!
moreover, I think the behavior of very conservative women is completely incomprehensible. I think that those women who have been very conservative about sex before, when they cross the line, they become completely insatiable and surprise with their behavior.

 

[Jon Day]

I'd love her just doing it on her own

 

[robbiewillsucku]

you should encourage her to suck and fuck any cock she wants 1on1 or 3way just ask her to ride your face afterwards and share the details.

 

[toolman2c]

I dream of at least being in your situation, I don't even have the balls to talk to my partner about it yet but I've done a lot of research and they say it can take months or years to get to the stage where she actually goes through with it. Patience is key I'm guessing, are you well endowed? I'm just over 4 inches but my partner thinks I'm big 🤣 my point is... Maybe you should try using a cock sleeve if you're not big downstairs. Might put a spark in her brain as it were 👍

Nothing ventured,,,nothing gained.. U need to tell her....

 

[dinoo-2]

Agree!
moreover, I think the behavior of very conservative women is completely incomprehensible. I think that those women who have been very conservative about sex before, when they cross the line, they become completely insatiable and surprise with their behavior.

I can assure you that you are right southfly.
Not only my wife became a nympho, she surprised me so often with her behavior.
An extraordinary example?
Once she was trying to put a strangers dick into the ******** hole of my cock and conversely.
She started gently but when this stranger kissed her, she felt it as an encouragement to play very roughly with both of our cocks.
(How it finished? I have to search in our extensive diary to be sure of this history.)

 

[Cuntfister]

you should encourage her to suck and fuck any cock she wants 1on1 or 3way just ask her to ride your face afterwards and share the details.

Show me and tell me everything Give her to me completely

 

[1HardMan]

Just back off now and be patient in letting her bring it up, or you will run the risk of making her feeling forced and changing her mind.
The seed has been planted now just let it grow.
All the best.

Agreed!
She's thinking about it and it sounds like she already wants to.
I'm confident she will talk to you and tell you she wants to try it soon.
Keep us updated on everything!
Good luck and just be patient like naughty said.

 

[1HardMan]

Agreed!
She's thinking about it and it sounds like she already wants to.
I'm confident she will talk to you and tell you she wants to try it soon.
Keep us updated on everything!
Good luck and just be patient like naughty said.

Don't get frustrated or lose hope!

ENJOY the anticipation!
ENJOY all of the talks you have with her and the excitement of everything you do with her!
Have fun fantasizing about her saying the things your want her to say that drive to wild.

Take it from me.
I WISH I would have appreciated the time a lot more from when I first told my wife about my fantasies.
Through all of the time wanting it so much.
All of the times I talked to her about it and the things we did until she was comfortable enough and excited to do more.
Thinking back still excires me.