She was agreed to share her pics but now

Instead of including tributes maybe see if just sharing a pic or 2 is ok? Ask her to chose them? Make sure she’s not identifiable in them maybe?
 
Your Wife has the perfect body for tributes. If She refuses, it will be a great loss for us (all men), so plead with Her on our behalf not to do it. Of course, remember that tributes are no substitute for good sex.