She's nearly there...how to get her to go the distance

Update: still nothing has happened for us just yet, and I am content with not pushing her. She hasn't looked at our online profile just yet. She wants us to book a two-night stay in a local city this summer, and "make some dreams come true" as she put it. She has been asking for some BDSM which surprised me and I obliged by buying nipple clamps, spreader bar, restraints, paddle etc and used them in one of our sessions. She turned into a compliant little slut, which is very different from how she usually acts, and particularly loved the anal hook that I had also connected to a leather collar. She begged for a big dildo to fill her pussy and took it with the anal hook, saying that it felt like she was getting fucked by 2 men. Her kinks are a revelation to me, I'm not sure if this is new or if she has harboured these desires for a long time.

I'll admit that she did surprise me recently (another surprise!) when she was sliding down onto one of our big black ultraskyn dildos, stretching her pussy and taking it deep. She breathlessly mentioned the night I told her my fantasy (that she would fuck 2 big-dicked guys in front of me, preferably black), and said that she had wanted to do it from the moment I told her. That she wasn't scared, nervous, or reluctant, and that she was really excited about the whole scenario, and couldn't wait to put on a show for me and to see the expression on my face. I was taken aback to say the least. I honestly thought that I was slowly trying to convince her, or at least make her more comfortable with the idea. Little did I know that she was turned on by it from the moment I said it! It's only a matter of time now, and finding the right men in the right moment.
 
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What worked for me was when we started going to nude beaches. Nude beaches are great bc there is zero pressure to hook up, yet everyone is naked and there is a tangible erotic vibe in the air.

After you go a couple times you may start to notice there are a lot of swingers on nude beaches, and a fair share of single men on the prowl as well. It's usually just a matter of time until you get approached by a single - or a couple - who want to engage in friendly chat... with the goal of hooking up.

That's how we got our start, and we still go, and still sometimes hook up today.
 
Unfortunately there are no beaches nearby, but she loved it when we went to one in France. A few black guys among the crowd walked past us and she got a good look...she didn't say much but sex was amazing that night
Nudist resorts can be good too and can be found inland. Best to find one that allows single males as some do not.
 
Update: still nothing has happened for us just yet, and I am content with not pushing her. She hasn't looked at our online profile just yet. She wants us to book a two-night stay in a local city this summer, and "make some dreams come true" as she put it. She has been asking for some BDSM which surprised me and I obliged by buying nipple clamps, spreader bar, restraints, paddle etc and used them in one of our sessions. She turned into a compliant little slut, which is very different from how she usually acts, and particularly loved the anal hook that I had also connected to a leather collar. She begged for a big dildo to fill her pussy and took it with the anal hook, saying that it felt like she was getting fucked by 2 men. Her kinks are a revelation to me, I'm not sure if this is new or if she has harboured these desires for a long time.

I'll admit that she did surprise me recently (another surprise!) when she was sliding down onto one of our big black ultraskyn dildos, stretching her pussy and taking it deep. She breathlessly mentioned the night I told her my fantasy (that she would fuck 2 big-dicked guys in front of me, preferably black), and said that she had wanted to do it from the moment I told her. That she wasn't scared, nervous, or reluctant, and that she was really excited about the whole scenario, and couldn't wait to put on a show for me and to see the expression on my face. I was taken aback to say the least. I honestly thought that I was slowly trying to convince her, or at least make her more comfortable with the idea. Little did I know that she was turned on by it from the moment I said it! It's only a matter of time now, and finding the right men in the right moment.
Just remember when.she takes that first step she might become uncontrollable an want it alot a very deep and hard there is no turning back afterher first good hard filling