Should I go ahead and fuck this guy or not?

Do you think that's going to happen? Has he shown any signs of changing his attitude?

How curious are you about why your husband dislikes this guy so much? Have you asked this guy what he thinks is the reason your husband dislikes him? If you go ahead and have sex with this guy your husband will know that what he wants won't matter. He'll know that HIS no won't be respected. He knows that will open up another opportunity for "the next guy".

If this isn't the first time you've done something sexual directly against the wishes of your husband, and it's part of a kink you two share, then things are different. That would make sense. It still seems like an "edgy" game to play especially if it's done wrong.

If this IS the first time you've done something sexual directly against the wishes of your husband, and it's something you two DON'T agree on, then it seems even more dangerous. If you had to put them in order of excitement, how would you place these three, 1) Going against what you know your husband doesn't want, 2) Fucking someone your husband dislikes, 3) the sex?
1.the sex
2. the sex
3. the sex
 
My husband knows I've had the hots for a guy where I work, I’ve told my husband how this guy is always flirting when no one else can hear, The guy knows I’m married but that only seems to make him want to fuck me more. Lately he’s taken it to the next level and has been feeling me up whenever we are alone. I must admit I have done nothing to discourage his advances; in fact, I have been making sure he has plenty of opportunity to be alone with me as I love the attention.

Yesterday morning he reached up under my skirt and to his surprise he discovered I wasn’t wearing panties; his cock instantly became hard and was making a very impressive bulge in the front of his pants that I was more than keen to explore further. His fingers were only touching my wet open shave pussy for maybe a minute or two at most, but it was long enough for me to be dripping wet for the rest of the day.

Last night I told my husband what had happened and all he said was that I should fuck him If I wanted to because he knows how hooked I am on bigger than average cock. I got out of bed this morning, showered, shaved my pussy dressed I in a short red leather skirt and a sexy lowish cut top, no underwear and headed off to work with the full intention fucking this guy today.

Upon getting to work, hubby called and said, I just realised who the guys is, that you want to fuck. I know you had no idea but, I really dislike him, but I'm okay if you fuck him as long as you do it discreetly and never tell anyone, not even me. So, my question is, should I fuck this guy or not?
Hell no don’t fuk that guy. Find another one…although, sluts do what sluts do. Hopefully he knew u were a slut before you got married
 
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Hell no don’t fuk that guy. Find another one…although, sluts do what sluts do. Hopefully he knew u were a slut before you got married
He knows I'm a horny little slut from the day we met, but this guy is so persistent, every time I go to a secluded spot at work, he's there with his long fingers finding their way into my panties, I've told him I not going to fuck him, but he continues to finger and feel me up anyway.
 
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My husband knows I've had the hots for a guy where I work, I’ve told my husband how this guy is always flirting when no one else can hear, The guy knows I’m married but that only seems to make him want to fuck me more. Lately he’s taken it to the next level and has been feeling me up whenever we are alone. I must admit I have done nothing to discourage his advances; in fact, I have been making sure he has plenty of opportunity to be alone with me as I love the attention.

Yesterday morning he reached up under my skirt and to his surprise he discovered I wasn’t wearing panties; his cock instantly became hard and was making a very impressive bulge in the front of his pants that I was more than keen to explore further. His fingers were only touching my wet open shave pussy for maybe a minute or two at most, but it was long enough for me to be dripping wet for the rest of the day.

Last night I told my husband what had happened and all he said was that I should fuck him If I wanted to because he knows how hooked I am on bigger than average cock. I got out of bed this morning, showered, shaved my pussy dressed I in a short red leather skirt and a sexy lowish cut top, no underwear and headed off to work with the full intention fucking this guy today.

Upon getting to work, hubby called and said, I just realised who the guys is, that you want to fuck. I know you had no idea but, I really dislike him, but I'm okay if you fuck him as long as you do it discreetly and never tell anyone, not even me. So, my question is, should I fuck this guy or not?
Fuck him as much as you want and teach your husband to get over it and enjoy it
 
Well if you really want him and you know you will enjoy it then why not? Its same between me and my wife. She sometimes fucks really nasty men. i do tell her dont but i give her the right to do it or not. At the end this makes us both happy.
 
My husband knows I've had the hots for a guy where I work, I’ve told my husband how this guy is always flirting when no one else can hear, The guy knows I’m married but that only seems to make him want to fuck me more. Lately he’s taken it to the next level and has been feeling me up whenever we are alone. I must admit I have done nothing to discourage his advances; in fact, I have been making sure he has plenty of opportunity to be alone with me as I love the attention.

Yesterday morning he reached up under my skirt and to his surprise he discovered I wasn’t wearing panties; his cock instantly became hard and was making a very impressive bulge in the front of his pants that I was more than keen to explore further. His fingers were only touching my wet open shave pussy for maybe a minute or two at most, but it was long enough for me to be dripping wet for the rest of the day.

Last night I told my husband what had happened and all he said was that I should fuck him If I wanted to because he knows how hooked I am on bigger than average cock. I got out of bed this morning, showered, shaved my pussy dressed I in a short red leather skirt and a sexy lowish cut top, no underwear and headed off to work with the full intention fucking this guy today.

Upon getting to work, hubby called and said, I just realised who the guys is, that you want to fuck. I know you had no idea but, I really dislike him, but I'm okay if you fuck him as long as you do it discreetly and never tell anyone, not even me. So, my question is, should I fuck this guy or not?
Yes absolutely. He gave you permission!
 
Be careful 'fuckin around in the workplace. You don't want to deal with HR. Instead....

He could at least invite you to join him in a nice hotel, or YOU could invite him to join you in a nice hotel. Once at the hotel, you can cut loose for as long as you like with a firm comfortable bed (that's always best for the kind of deep penetration that feels sooooooo good), a place to clean up afterwards (that's assuming you want to clean up), and even a place to rest or fall asleep in his arms.

Then, no matter where you fuck, and assuming he's a great fuck and the two of you found satisfaction like never before, then what? Great things could happen, but hubby hates this guy. Bad things could happen. Maybe hubby just hates the guy because the guy is clearly arousing you.
 
You and your wife must have different limits for flirting than my husband and I have, guys often finger me when hubby's not looking and he often fingers my sister when he thinks I'm not looking, lol My husband, my sister and I were all sitting on the lounge the other night under a blanket and I could hear my sister softly moaning as my husband slowly finger fucked her, her eyes were closed, hubby looked at me and whispered she was flirting and was the one that placed my hand on her pussy.
Has he fucked her
 
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Unless I've missed that this is a game that you and your husband have played before and BOTH admit it gives BOTH of you the thrill you're BOTH seeking, then I'm back to asking, have you asked and REALLY discussed why your husband doesn't like this guy?

Have you shared with this guy that your husband doesn't like him? Would you rather have this guy believe that your husband is cool with everything? Would it make a difference if the guy knew your husband didn't like him? Would he be like, "Yeah, your husband is an asshole!" and be more inspired to fuck you, or would he be like, "Oh fuck! I don't want to ... him off any more than he already is!"?

Even more to the point, would YOU rather that your husband doesn't care what you do? Would you prefer that he would give up on sharing his thoughts and feelings? Is that the kind of dominance you really seek? If that's the case then it's NOT REALLY "all about the sex". At what point will his opinion matter and when would he feel it's worth his sharing it with you?

I get that you're horny for this guy. I get that you have a hard time controlling your own thoughts and feelings towards this guy. I don't get going against your husband's wishes even if it's a game between you two. That kind of game leads to escalating the behavior. Eventually he'll know he has no say in anything. He won't be happy now or in the long run.