Slowly increasing dildo size

My wife and I have yet to play with a bull. She says it's risky and is concerned what if she develops feelings for the bull. Anyway, we have been playing with dildos recently to see how she does with bigger cocks. I'm average sized, 5'5". The first dildo we tried was 7.5"x 1.7" wide. It wasn't comfortable and she said it hurt. Today we had sex with alot of foreplay and I talked to her about a former lover she had met in bar and took home to fuck. I even called her a slut and she didn't mind it at all. I ate her pussy for a while and made her cum. Then we tried a 8.75" x 2" dildo and she had no problem with the width. I could could only insert maybe 7" of the dildo because she said it hurt. She also said it felt like it was hitting something in the front of her vagina. It didn't hurt but it didn't feel good. She was only was able to cum from clitoral stimulation. She suggested trying a short but fat dildo. So I ordered a 6"x2.2" dildo.

My question is, maybe she just has a short vagina? I really want her to experience a G spot or A spot orgasm. If we decide to find a bull are there guys out there who have short but girthy cocks? Alot of the posts I see on sites like this show guys with massive schlongs. Not every woman want a 9" cock.
Thoughts??
 
My wife and I have yet to play with a bull. She says it's risky and is concerned what if she develops feelings for the bull. Anyway, we have been playing with dildos recently to see how she does with bigger cocks. I'm average sized, 5'5". The first dildo we tried was 7.5"x 1.7" wide. It wasn't comfortable and she said it hurt. Today we had sex with alot of foreplay and I talked to her about a former lover she had met in bar and took home to fuck. I even called her a slut and she didn't mind it at all. I ate her pussy for a while and made her cum. Then we tried a 8.75" x 2" dildo and she had no problem with the width. I could could only insert maybe 7" of the dildo because she said it hurt. She also said it felt like it was hitting something in the front of her vagina. It didn't hurt but it didn't feel good. She was only was able to cum from clitoral stimulation. She suggested trying a short but fat dildo. So I ordered a 6"x2.2" dildo.

My question is, maybe she just has a short vagina? I really want her to experience a G spot or A spot orgasm. If we decide to find a bull are there guys out there who have short but girthy cocks? Alot of the posts I see on sites like this show guys with massive schlongs. Not every woman want a 9" cock.
Thoughts??
She will have a low cervix.. I have an 8.5" cock and it touches my wife's cervix in some positions she says it feels like a sharp stabbing pain and it's not comfortable at all ... You are doing the right thing looking for girth rather than length
 
The more turned on she is the more she can take. Her cervix will move up and she can take more. Maybe she just wasn't comfortable enough. Anyways if it was a gspot orgasm that youre looking for then you wouldnt be going deep anyways.
 
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Most women can't accommodate much more than 6" - less when not fully aroused, a bit more when aroused as the vagina elongates. You can see this in porn, where a woman is fucking a guy with a 10" cock or a huge dildo and only like 6-8" actually fits inside. Like men, women vary in size, so you do have some who can take a pretty long dick but that isn't the norm. I think a lot of women enjoy big cocks are more into the visual and thrill of a huge cock more than the actual length unless they're one of the few with a really deep pussy.

My cock is only 7-8" and if I thrust too hard in some positions it hurts my wife, who I would say has a deeper than avg pussy. I've had past girlfriends where I could never really put my whole cock in.

The other thing is, the g-spot is only like 2-3" inside the vagina. Most of the nerves are around the front. Another reason your wife may not like dildos as much is that, during sex, the man's pelvis is often pressing into the outside of the pussy / clit, providing additional stimulation that doesn't happen with a dildo. She might enjoy it more if you use the dildo while eating her out. I feel like this is real bonus for women of using a dildo over your cock - the possibility of being filled while also getting oral.

On the other hand, pussies can handle a lot of girth, after all, baby-heads have to pass through there. When you're using a bigger dildo though, I think you need to go kind of slow and use lube otherwise they can get sore quickly. My wife has one that is 9" circumference and you can tell she really enjoys getting it in and feeling stretched by it but she hasn't cum on it and usually just wants the real dick after a few minutes of that.
 
My wife and I have yet to play with a bull. She says it's risky and is concerned what if she develops feelings for the bull. Anyway, we have been playing with dildos recently to see how she does with bigger cocks. I'm average sized, 5'5". The first dildo we tried was 7.5"x 1.7" wide. It wasn't comfortable and she said it hurt. Today we had sex with alot of foreplay and I talked to her about a former lover she had met in bar and took home to fuck. I even called her a slut and she didn't mind it at all. I ate her pussy for a while and made her cum. Then we tried a 8.75" x 2" dildo and she had no problem with the width. I could could only insert maybe 7" of the dildo because she said it hurt. She also said it felt like it was hitting something in the front of her vagina. It didn't hurt but it didn't feel good. She was only was able to cum from clitoral stimulation. She suggested trying a short but fat dildo. So I ordered a 6"x2.2" dildo.

My question is, maybe she just has a short vagina? I really want her to experience a G spot or A spot orgasm. If we decide to find a bull are there guys out there who have short but girthy cocks? Alot of the posts I see on sites like this show guys with massive schlongs. Not every woman want a 9" cock.
Thoughts??
Just go slow and be gentle, her pussy will adjust to accommodate the size given the right amount of foreplay and time to adjust
 
I’m only 5.5. - 6”. But we got the wife a 7.5” dildo vibrator. I was shocked watching her bury that thing as deep as it would go. And yes she came a lot with it.
 
I’m only 5.5. - 6”. But we got the wife a 7.5” dildo vibrator. I was shocked watching her bury that thing as deep as it would go. And yes she came a lot with it.
Most husbands are a little shocked the first time they watch their wife take a decent sized dildo, because it's quite rare that she doesn't want and take the bigger dildo balls deep within a few minutes and orgasm harder than her husband has ever witnessed her orgasm before. even if she says she didn't like the dildo she'll usually use it most days without you knowing and have the time of her life getting herself of like never before. Enjoy it, she will
 
It's an individual and situational thing. My wife wouldn't use a 7 inch x 5.5 inch dildo for ages. After she tried it a few times she ended up taking it fairly well. Then she told me she didn't want to use it anymore. For ages we never used a dildo.
Then the other day she says I can use a dildo on her just not the big one. I grabbed the medium one and used it on her. One thing lead to another and I somehow ended up with my cock and the dildo in her pussy!
If I ever work her out it'll be a miracle.
 
It's an individual and situational thing. My wife wouldn't use a 7 inch x 5.5 inch dildo for ages. After she tried it a few times she ended up taking it fairly well. Then she told me she didn't want to use it anymore. For ages we never used a dildo.
Then the other day she says I can use a dildo on her just not the big one. I grabbed the medium one and used it on her. One thing lead to another and I somehow ended up with my cock and the dildo in her pussy!
If I ever work her out it'll be a miracle.
You don't have to work her out, she knew what she was doing and what she wanted
 
Most husbands are a little shocked the first time they watch their wife take a decent sized dildo, because it's quite rare that she doesn't want and take the bigger dildo balls deep within a few minutes and orgasm harder than her husband has ever witnessed her orgasm before. even if she says she didn't like the dildo she'll usually use it most days without you knowing and have the time of her life getting herself of like never before. Enjoy it, she will
Wow Cathy you hit the nail on the head. After it arrived about a week later I asked her when we can use it. She told me she had already used it five times. No wonder she took it so easily. What was strange to me was she didn’t stroke in and out with it, she put it in to the hilt and just held it there lightly gyrating with it. But oh man the orgasm must have been strong. The thrill for me was having her afterwards putting my smaller D in there and just trying to get traction.
 
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Wow Cathy you hit the nail on the head. After it arrived about a week later I asked her when we can use it. She told me she had already used it five times. No wonder she took it so easily. What was strange to me was she didn’t stroke in and out with it, she put it in to the hilt and just held it there lightly gyrating with it. But oh man the orgasm must have been strong. The thrill for me was having her afterwards putting my smaller D in there and just trying to get traction.
A woman Just holding a dildo deep inside her pussy and having massive orgasms with just the slightest amount of movement is very common and great fun. You said she had already used the dildo 5 times, so I am guessing that she only told you about some of the times she actually used it. More like two or three times daily lol, encourage her to at least a couple times a day and she'll start stroking it in and out more and more as time goes on. Already to you her pussy should be feeling different, not really looser bet sort of still a snug fit, but not as tight, however with an extended period of use it will loosen up more, I hope both of you have lots of fun in your new adventures
 
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