A little about us. I'm 49 and she's 47. I've always been the creative and open one in our 15+ year marriage while she has always been very conservative and a traditionalist. In other words, anything outside of the two of us wasn't of interest to her (except for some toy play every now and then).
To spice things up, we both downloaded an app that we could send sexual ideas to each other, kind of like a truth or dare game but mostly covering dares we wanted each other to do. In one of them, I dared her to find an anonymous stranger to sext with for one night. She said that was "crazy", scolded me for thinking of such a thing and wouldn't talk about it any further. A few weeks later we were chatting casually over some drinks during a vacation (pre-Covid of course) and she said that if I lead the way, she would "maybe" play along. It started out as me using a burner number on a texting app. I'd flirt with her as a stranger who misdialled a text and she played along with short one sentence answers for a couple minutes before disappearing for days without answering.
I decided to up the ante a bit and did some searching online for someone who could text her instead of me (I think she figured out it was me after awhile anyway). I asked her to download a burner number on her phone and to text me her new number. I waited about a week when all of a sudden I get a text on my regular text number from a number I don't recognize and it's my wife. She's downloaded the app and has a burner number.
By now, I've chatted with a guy on the other side of the country for a couple of weeks, explaining what I wanted and what she was like. We went through the ground rules and he agreed to play by them. He messaged her at a pre-set time when I knew my wife and I would be together in the same room. She instantly knew it wasn't me messaging her and didn't say a word to me, even though I knew who it was. For the next couple of weeks, this new guy and I would chat and it didn't appear she was playing along and he was becoming a bit frustrated with the whole situation, as was I.
Then, out of the blue one day about 3 weeks ago, he messaged me to tell me she had been texting with him on and off pretty much all day and sent me some screen shots. The talk wasn't super hot or sizzling or anything but there was plenty of innuendo and flirting on her part. My wife and her boy toy are now texting everyday, sharing pictures and she has said he has sent her a couple of short clips that are very explicit in nature. When I asked if she wanted to continue she said "YES" in all caps in a text with a flame emoji next to it. Last night, she went outside to water some plants and do some other things. She left her phone on the counter with the screen facing down. I picked it up and saw it was unlocked and the text screen was open. I quickly scrolled back but going back to the very beginning to skim through a 3 week long text thread wou;d've taken forever so I stopped at one point and began to read. There was plenty of naughty talk, painting images of what they would do to each other, lots of teasing (and some that left nothing to the imagination) photos of various body parts. There was also lots of idle chit chat about their younger years, their preferences in TV shows, food and other everyday things.
The past 3 weeks she has been a complete nympho in bed with me. No longer does she wear her old pajamas but now comes to bed in either sexy lingerie or is naked and jumps on me. I'm not complaining because knowing she has a side guy is making me hornier than ever as well. Our sex has gone through the roof and more often than not she talks in bed while we are getting busy as if this other guy is there waiting for his turn. In fact, last time we had sex, she rode me until I blew inside her and she got off, went to her toy box and got out her favorite
dildo (8" and 2" in diameter). She came back to bed and insisted that I fuck her with it and that "your cum makes good lube and it's easier for me to take all of him".
I'm hoping this is one small step towards having either a hotwife encounter for her or a swinging encounter for all three of us. Anyone have any thoughts? Am I reading too much into this? Is it staring me in the face? What advice on what to do next?
