SoCal Sad: Too Old to Cuckold?

So I have long held this cuck fantasy but honestly, I didn’t know it was a popular kink. I’m not a big porn watcher and I don’t go online a lot. I didn’t even know the terms like cuck and bull and hotwife. But thanks to you all, I do now.

I also never imagined making this come to reality. I imagined my wife doing lots of slutty things and just kept it there, in my mind. But lately, I’ve been curious about the possibilities.

We’re older. Late 50s. Married over 30 years. Kids are all out of the house, moving along in their lives. We’re true empty nesters. No grandkids yet.

I really think Caty’s still sexy. She’s put on a little weight, a little thick in the middle, but her breasts are bigger and with a good bra on, her body is enticing. She has a devious little smile too and flirty eyes. I swear she’d get any dude excited.

I’ve told her my fantasy and she gets excited about it…as a fantasy. She’ll play games with me for my enjoyment. She will “confess” to the affair she’s been having. In detail. I know she’s making it up but I love that her mind is there.

I’m not the sexual demon I once was, of course, but I still can manage a natural erection but it's not quite the weapon it once was. She can have a lot of dryness which lubricants help. We tire more easily. The reality is that it requires the stars to align just right for us to have sex. Although I do sometimes suspect that she’s holding back for me. That if she had the opportunity, she could perform like she used to.

When I suggest making the fantasy a reality, she thinks I’m crazy. Her number one excuse is our age. I think she does believe me when I tell her she’s still hot and that she could even get some young studs, but she claims that she’s just mastered the smoke and mirrors of make up and dressing well to hide her age and she isn’t about to get naked in front of a stranger.

Would love to connect with other wannabes or bulls.
 
My wife is 60 and has a tummy. She dresses well and is a popular wife at swinger parties.

If you can hook up with a group that is a bit more mature she might be surprised how popular she is.

They will probably be more amenable to your cuckold antics if you choose to play that way.
 

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My wife is 60 and has a tummy. She dresses well and is a popular wife at swinger parties.

If you can hook up with a group that is a bit more mature she might be surprised how popular she is.

They will probably be more amenable to your cuckold antics if you choose to play that way.
I love it. Thank you for sharing. Looks like your wife has small hands...

Thats great to hear about the community...getting Caty into is another thing
 
Half the bulls on here would be considered age appropriate for your wife. Half of the remainder love older women. Age isn't a problem. It's the fear of judgement and societal conditioning against "alternative lifestyles". If you and your wife feel like this is something you want to explore, I promise you you will have plenty of takers. The challenge will be finding the right fit. Figure out what the right bull will be then drown out all the a-holes and thrill seekers. The right bull is out there. Sometimes you have to open a lot of oysters to find the right pearl. So be patient and don't let her get discouraged.

Feel free to message me if you want to chat
 
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Caty is a counselor. Deals with troubled kids mostly. She’s a contractor so she works at several schools, both public and private, and she does some adult counseling, too. Sorry for the TMI but I’ve always felt there was something sexy about her job. Maybe I watched too much Sopranos. I imagine her sitting across from a guy who is droning on about his problems while he fights a semi-hard because she’s showing a little leg and cleavage.
 
So I have long held this cuck fantasy but honestly, I didn’t know it was a popular kink. I’m not a big porn watcher and I don’t go online a lot. I didn’t even know the terms like cuck and bull and hotwife. But thanks to you all, I do now.

I also never imagined making this come to reality. I imagined my wife doing lots of slutty things and just kept it there, in my mind. But lately, I’ve been curious about the possibilities.

We’re older. Late 50s. Married over 30 years. Kids are all out of the house, moving along in their lives. We’re true empty nesters. No grandkids yet.

I really think Caty’s still sexy. She’s put on a little weight, a little thick in the middle, but her breasts are bigger and with a good bra on, her body is enticing. She has a devious little smile too and flirty eyes. I swear she’d get any dude excited.

I’ve told her my fantasy and she gets excited about it…as a fantasy. She’ll play games with me for my enjoyment. She will “confess” to the affair she’s been having. In detail. I know she’s making it up but I love that her mind is there.

I’m not the sexual demon I once was, of course, but I still can manage a natural erection but it's not quite the weapon it once was. She can have a lot of dryness which lubricants help. We tire more easily. The reality is that it requires the stars to align just right for us to have sex. Although I do sometimes suspect that she’s holding back for me. That if she had the opportunity, she could perform like she used to.

When I suggest making the fantasy a reality, she thinks I’m crazy. Her number one excuse is our age. I think she does believe me when I tell her she’s still hot and that she could even get some young studs, but she claims that she’s just mastered the smoke and mirrors of make up and dressing well to hide her age and she isn’t about to get naked in front of a stranger.

Would love to connect with other wannabes or bulls.
Not too old. Perfect age and situation.
 
Trust me there is no such a thing as "we are too old" there is always some one who will like your wife. The way you talk about her and describe her she looks like a real fun. So just go ahead and you both will be amazed how many bulls will want her. My wife is 45 and lots of younger men 20s 30s are really enjoying her. So enjoy the life style amd thats all.
 
So I have long held this cuck fantasy but honestly, I didn’t know it was a popular kink. I’m not a big porn watcher and I don’t go online a lot. I didn’t even know the terms like cuck and bull and hotwife. But thanks to you all, I do now.

I also never imagined making this come to reality. I imagined my wife doing lots of slutty things and just kept it there, in my mind. But lately, I’ve been curious about the possibilities.

We’re older. Late 50s. Married over 30 years. Kids are all out of the house, moving along in their lives. We’re true empty nesters. No grandkids yet.

I really think Caty’s still sexy. She’s put on a little weight, a little thick in the middle, but her breasts are bigger and with a good bra on, her body is enticing. She has a devious little smile too and flirty eyes. I swear she’d get any dude excited.

I’ve told her my fantasy and she gets excited about it…as a fantasy. She’ll play games with me for my enjoyment. She will “confess” to the affair she’s been having. In detail. I know she’s making it up but I love that her mind is there.

I’m not the sexual demon I once was, of course, but I still can manage a natural erection but it's not quite the weapon it once was. She can have a lot of dryness which lubricants help. We tire more easily. The reality is that it requires the stars to align just right for us to have sex. Although I do sometimes suspect that she’s holding back for me. That if she had the opportunity, she could perform like she used to.

When I suggest making the fantasy a reality, she thinks I’m crazy. Her number one excuse is our age. I think she does believe me when I tell her she’s still hot and that she could even get some young studs, but she claims that she’s just mastered the smoke and mirrors of make up and dressing well to hide her age and she isn’t about to get naked in front of a stranger.

Would love to connect with other wannabes or bulls.
Shes the perfect age for a young Bull in his 30s right now.

I personally would love to push her to her limits. Do things with her that she won’t do with you etc

Thats the hottest part of older hotwifes
 
So I have long held this cuck fantasy but honestly, I didn’t know it was a popular kink. I’m not a big porn watcher and I don’t go online a lot. I didn’t even know the terms like cuck and bull and hotwife. But thanks to you all, I do now.

I also never imagined making this come to reality. I imagined my wife doing lots of slutty things and just kept it there, in my mind. But lately, I’ve been curious about the possibilities.

We’re older. Late 50s. Married over 30 years. Kids are all out of the house, moving along in their lives. We’re true empty nesters. No grandkids yet.

I really think Caty’s still sexy. She’s put on a little weight, a little thick in the middle, but her breasts are bigger and with a good bra on, her body is enticing. She has a devious little smile too and flirty eyes. I swear she’d get any dude excited.

I’ve told her my fantasy and she gets excited about it…as a fantasy. She’ll play games with me for my enjoyment. She will “confess” to the affair she’s been having. In detail. I know she’s making it up but I love that her mind is there.

I’m not the sexual demon I once was, of course, but I still can manage a natural erection but it's not quite the weapon it once was. She can have a lot of dryness which lubricants help. We tire more easily. The reality is that it requires the stars to align just right for us to have sex. Although I do sometimes suspect that she’s holding back for me. That if she had the opportunity, she could perform like she used to.

When I suggest making the fantasy a reality, she thinks I’m crazy. Her number one excuse is our age. I think she does believe me when I tell her she’s still hot and that she could even get some young studs, but she claims that she’s just mastered the smoke and mirrors of make up and dressing well to hide her age and she isn’t about to get naked in front of a stranger.

Would love to connect with other wannabes or bulls.
Show me and tell me everything She sounds Sexy as fuck
 
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I’m taking a guess that church outings aren’t the typical place for cuck fantasies but alas, that’s where my mind was yesterday. I’m not sure how much is in my imagination and fantasy versus how much is really what’s happening.

We didn’t arrive together because she had walked and I drove and I was late getting out of the house. I ended up sitting higher than her in the gallery area but that gave me a nice view of her. It was a warm day here and our church is notoriously stuffy and hot. My dear Caty wore a summer dress that tightly fit around her bosom, leaving her shoulders bare, but she had on a light white sweater covering her up to keep it all church appropriate. However, as the service progressed, she got warm and off came the sweater.

As you can observe in the small photo I shared, she does have a nice rack and I’m certain others noticed. How could they not? There was one young man in particular who seemed to notice. Nate is a recent college graduate who has returned home and is living with his parents until he finds a job. We’ve known Nate and his family for a long time. For years we had him come around the house to do yard work etc. A good kid. Played sports, was in a frat, maybe not the best student but not a trouble maker.

Today he was sitting with the parents and siblings a row behind Caty, to her left. I swear after that sweater came off, he couldn’t take his eyes off her. Am I crazy to think that a young strapping guy would be lusting for her like I think he was?

After the service, there was a social event, a church picnic, which we attended. No church picnics in the middle of football season ought to be the 11th commandment but until that gets passed, I’m a good husband and attend with my wife. While I tried to eat potato salad from the cheap collapsing paper plate, I saw Nate invite my wife to be his partner in badminton. He was being a nice kid, playing with the much younger kids and he saw Caty nearby and said it’d be fun if she joined. Caty is not athletic but she is a fun “lets do it” kind of person so she happily agreed.

So her sweater is off and I see her lean over to pull off her shoes and I swear Nate didn’t even attempt to hide that he was staring at her cleavage. Then as they played, Nate "accidentally" ran into her multiple times. He would have to grab and catch her from falling. They would both laugh and she later told me she had “so much fun”. Hmmm, so did he…did you feel his erection bumping against you honey?

Later, I said something about Nate having a little crush and she said I was ridiculous saying that she’s like his grandmother. I said she was right, that I was being dumb, but maybe we should hire him to do some work around the house and yard while he’s looking for a regular job. She agreed it’d be a nice thing to do.

What do you think? Is it all in my imagination?
 
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So I have long held this cuck fantasy but honestly, I didn’t know it was a popular kink. I’m not a big porn watcher and I don’t go online a lot. I didn’t even know the terms like cuck and bull and hotwife. But thanks to you all, I do now.

I also never imagined making this come to reality. I imagined my wife doing lots of slutty things and just kept it there, in my mind. But lately, I’ve been curious about the possibilities.

We’re older. Late 50s. Married over 30 years. Kids are all out of the house, moving along in their lives. We’re true empty nesters. No grandkids yet.

I really think Caty’s still sexy. She’s put on a little weight, a little thick in the middle, but her breasts are bigger and with a good bra on, her body is enticing. She has a devious little smile too and flirty eyes. I swear she’d get any dude excited.

I’ve told her my fantasy and she gets excited about it…as a fantasy. She’ll play games with me for my enjoyment. She will “confess” to the affair she’s been having. In detail. I know she’s making it up but I love that her mind is there.

I’m not the sexual demon I once was, of course, but I still can manage a natural erection but it's not quite the weapon it once was. She can have a lot of dryness which lubricants help. We tire more easily. The reality is that it requires the stars to align just right for us to have sex. Although I do sometimes suspect that she’s holding back for me. That if she had the opportunity, she could perform like she used to.

When I suggest making the fantasy a reality, she thinks I’m crazy. Her number one excuse is our age. I think she does believe me when I tell her she’s still hot and that she could even get some young studs, but she claims that she’s just mastered the smoke and mirrors of make up and dressing well to hide her age and she isn’t about to get naked in front of a stranger.

Would love to connect with other wannabes or bulls.
would love to see pix of her
 
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