Strip club question

Hey all!

So my wife and I are brand new to all of this. She’s never done anything in this lifestyle but we are interested. We both are newbies to strip clubs as well but had a great time when we went last time. Our question is, we intend to go and have her wear something very slutty. She is attractive and outgoing so would have no trouble attracting attention. I’d like her to flirt with men there. Not sure about actually fucking yet, but in your experience in most strip clubs, would she get in trouble randomly flashing her tits or pussy to men there, be able to discreetly get fingered or touch a cock or two without being noticed or kicked out? Adding a picture of her from the last time we went and she was so horny we had to fuck in the car in the parking lot.
 

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Hey all!

So my wife and I are brand new to all of this. She’s never done anything in this lifestyle but we are interested. We both are newbies to strip clubs as well but had a great time when we went last time. Our question is, we intend to go and have her wear something very slutty. She is attractive and outgoing so would have no trouble attracting attention. I’d like her to flirt with men there. Not sure about actually fucking yet, but in your experience in most strip clubs, would she get in trouble randomly flashing her tits or pussy to men there, be able to discreetly get fingered or touch a cock or two without being noticed or kicked out? Adding a picture of her from the last time we went and she was so horny we had to fuck in the car in the parking lot.
Most strip clubs will have place for amateur participants you just need to talk to the staff and they will arrange for her to be included
 
I'm going to make my usual suggestion of going to a nude beach and if there isn't one nearby then search for nearby nudist resorts. There are more around than you might think. They're a great place to start bc there is no pressure or expectation of sex, but everyone is naked so there is a tangible erotic vibe in the air.
Its pretty common to find swingers and single males on the prowl at these places, and a little bit of touchy feely (but not too much) is generally acceptable.
I went to a nude resort in Tennessee years ago, and it wasnt as sexual as I expected
 
A long time ago I worked at a strip club as a server. There were a few times where guys would bring wives or girlfriends in and they would be dressed in revealing clothes or lingerie. A few girls would get upset if they tried to get on stage or dance for guys, other than the hubby or boyfriend. Other than that I think it was a fun time by all.
 
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Some good advice here, my suggestion if you are serious and both secure in your relationship and desires, I’d say go to a swinging club, you are under no obligation to do anything, she can flash as much or as little as she desires, you would both get an opportunity to talk with others men women couples or whom ever you like to talk with, most experienced couples are more than willing to have a discussion with you, the rules are up front, no means no and ask before you touch, if she is a looker she may be hit on more than others, but everyone understands the statement thank you but we’re not interested in playing right now, it is a safe and open location where you can socialize meet others and if you are comfortable or feel the urge you can play with others, either in a private room or an open area where others may watch. The hard core people are usually in the orgy room or group play room! Enjoy the journey
It has been years since i was in a strip club after 4 pm so i don’t know what goes on when the place packs up.

Yes this will sound made up but it is not.

A better place to play is swing / social clubs. Which back in the day we called Russian Clubs because they were owned and run by Russian Couples

That said back when i used to go after work (i was a member of the Health and Safety Committee and was asked to walk through the building insuring Security Concerns (Government office building 12 floors one floor every two weeks). It was usually a Wednesday or Thursday Evening after 7 pm. That way no one complained about the noise. We walked the floor twice with a sound meter once with the bells / horns off and once with the bells / horns on recording the differences in sound levels.

Anyhow i was always done at 8 pm. There was three good strip clubs / gentleman’s clubs i could visit on my way home. Two on the first bus route and one of the second bus route. Because government pay days were either Wednesday of Thursday the places were packed. Lots of great looking girls who lived by the Phrase get the money while they still have it. Or a the shooter girls said when the Eagle Shits.

These girls knew where the line was and would walk right up to it and not a step further.

In short the line was they could touch you as long as there was clothes separating you. You were not allowed to touch them ever. Yes they would sit in your lap however they were a hands free zone.

If they saw any cross the line they were talking to the bouncers. They hated wives or girl friends coming between them and their money.

Their boy friends were banned. There was a ten minute boy friend rule. He could drop you off or pick you up and only ten minutes with in ten feet of the door. This rule was strictly enforced.

They showed up and left the club in sweats and jeans and loose clothes.

If they had a good night they got rides to the bank.

They were there to make money not find boy friends.

These rules became even more strict after a guy tried to date ...... ...... a girl who had made $500. I know because i called the bouncer over when i watched a guy put the ...... into the dancers water bottle while she changed. Two things happened one the cops stopped by for the nightly licence check and two lover boy was forced to drink her 500 ml (small) water bottle. He made it about 8 steps before he went down. The bottle was taken as evidence. It was good enough to get a court order for DNA tests. Turned out he had robbed and raped four dancers getting two pregnant.

The club did loose a bit of business for about a month. Then it came back. As for management they got the credit for the safety of its dancers. About two months later one of the bouncers was waiting for me at the bus stop on my way home. He escorted me in to the club and right to see management. The owners, and all the managers were there. I got my picture taken with this group and all the girls were bought in to meet me in small groups. For about a year i was a local celebrity. The bar maid made sure i got my Orange Juice and Soda with a straight face.

The real funny thing was that three of the girls believed that if they were fucked before shift they made more money. Two of them lived with in two blocks of me. They also knew i got off early on Thursday or Friday. They also knew i was V Safe due being a cancer survivor. (The cancer ...... at the time caused birth defects) so i starting getting a phone call at work asking for a booty call between 4 and 5 pm.
 
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I went to a nude resort in Tennessee years ago, and it wasnt as sexual as I expected
I have been to Nudest Resorts since the early 80s. With the exception of one where they hold the Miss / Mrs / Mr Nude Universe (Sunshine Resort in Wisconsin) getting a hard on gets you kicked out.
A long time ago I worked at a strip club as a server. There were a few times where guys would bring wives or girlfriends in and they would be dressed in revealing clothes or lingerie. A few girls would get upset if they tried to get on stage or dance for guys, other than the hubby or boyfriend. Other than that I think it was a fun time by all.
Most of the clubs would have an ameture Night usually on either Sunday or Tuesday night after nine, it had to do with the need for an adult entertainment licence