Some great advice on here. I certainly appreciate that you are willing to ask advice on the matter to strangers, but experienced folks on here. Things just happen in this arena. I don't think it is like trying a new restaurant or things with no real emotional attachment. There is human interaction at a very intimate, yet raw sexual energy involved. I agree to take things slowly and let them unfold as they may. Your fantasy may not be hers. Ask her about her deepest fantasies, and then you tell her. Try to open up new avenues on other topics that trying new things will broaden our lives and help live life to the fullest. Try it, and if we like it, let's explore more. If we find it is not for us, well, we tried new things with each other. Just me opinion and trying to help here. Good luck.
