Talking to my wife about my desire to suck cock

Then do that. It seems like you have a double reason for trying it at least once: For her and for You.

Let her arrange it. Have her lead him in right from the shower. Do it in way that's comfortable for you, either laying in a bed with you on one side of the bull and her on the other side ... or, you sit in a chair, and have him stand in front of you. Touch his cock, feel how warm it is. Let her get him hard. Touch his cock with the tip of your tongue. Follow your wife's lead, let her show you how to lick it up and down the shaft. Let her put the head of his cock in your mouth. Let her guide him back and forth in your mouth, holding his cock at a certain point to prevent him from going too deep.

I'm sure your wife would be overjoyed to help you suck her lover's cock for the first time.
This description got me very hard. It’s exactly how I’d want it to happen.
 
This description got me very hard. It’s exactly how I’d want it to happen.
lol ... It's better than the way that I first sucked a cock: Sat down next to a naked guy watching porn, leaned over deep to my left, opened my mouth, stuck out my tongue a little, and when the tip of my tongue touched skin, closed my lips around him. Dragged my lips up and down while wiggling my tongue on his shaft and rubbing the head of his cock on the roof of my mouth until he exploded.
 
I love to see guys fuck my wife, i would place their cock inside her, go for sloppy seconds, cum next to a guy.

Am I bi?

The whole gay thing is 100% not me, love pussy through and through.
I don't think so. I think that in order to be considered Bisexual, you would need the ability to fall in love with other men or crave intimacy with other men, the same way that you would a woman.
 
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I love to see guys fuck my wife, i would place their cock inside her, go for sloppy seconds, cum next to a guy.

Am I bi?

The whole gay thing is 100% not me, love pussy through and through.
This is very similar to how I feel. I have talked to my wife about my desire for sloppy seconds and she’s completely fine with that.

I would love to guide a cock into her so she knows I want the sex to happen although I haven’t mentioned that to her.

And obviously I want to suck her bull while she watches.

Like you I don’t consider myself one bit gay. It’s about getting lost in the moment and enjoying all that sex has to offer with my wife.
 
There's a world of difference between sucking a guy's cock to make him hard for your wife, or jacking him off, and wanting to go on a dinner cruise with him and hold hands while watching the sunset.
Exactly this. I don’t want to be romantics with a guy, kiss them etc. a lifetime of porn has just given me an interest in cocks and I want to she
I'm honestly not sure how I'd say no in this scenario. My wife holding his cock while I lick up and down his shaft...oh my gawd! I'm so hard. I want to give up total control to them, and have them use me for their pleasure.
Yes yes yes! Servicing them both would be my honour.
 
lol ... It's better than the way that I first sucked a cock: Sat down next to a naked guy watching porn, leaned over deep to my left, opened my mouth, stuck out my tongue a little, and when the tip of my tongue touched skin, closed my lips around him. Dragged my lips up and down while wiggling my tongue on his shaft and rubbing the head of his cock on the roof of my mouth until he exploded.
Very sexy. I have sometimes fantasised about slightly more gay encounters. I’ve wanked myself off thinking about hiring a male ...... to have fun with. I blow him until he cuns in my mouth then he lets me explode in his. We don’t kiss but I do run my hands all over his body. No anal, even in my fantasies I’m not into that!
 
There's a world of difference between sucking a guy's cock to make him hard for your wife, or jacking him off, and wanting to go on a dinner cruise with him and hold hands while watching the sunset.
I couldn't agree more. It probably seems inaccurate to some when I state I am a married straight man having sex with other straight men. It would seem the correct classification would be I am a Bisexual or Bi man having sex with other Bi men. I have made this distinction based on my experiences with what I would define a truly Bisexual man and how for them it is emotionally important. When I am asked by other men if I am Bi I respond by saying I am “Bi-friendly”. Sexually, my interest is very specific and I do not have a physical attraction to other men. For many years now I have gotten involved with other men only to satisfy my desire to suck cock. In my experience Bisexual men are looking for an emotional connection with other men that include an intimacy level that is much deeper than just sexual. Bisexual men seek a connection and a long term relationship that mirrors how they behave with women. I am seeking is pure sexual gratification that I get from sucking cock. The men who I meet with share my view on this.
 
I love to see guys fuck my wife, i would place their cock inside her, go for sloppy seconds, cum next to a guy.

Am I bi?

The whole gay thing is 100% not me, love pussy through and through.
Same for me, luv to see wife fucked, help with the other guys cock, fluff, etc. Enjoyed sloppy seconds as well. Up to this point, I have sucked 18 different cocks and swallowed 30 loads of cum, 19 from the same guy. Even with the one who I have been servicing for the last five years it is still only about me sucking him off. I know that some may argue that simply by having sex with other men that would make me and them Bisexual. I can only say that my definition is mine, and that considering myself a Bi-friendly male as opposed to Bisexual is directly linked to my lack of needing some sort of emotional connection and what I specifically will do or desire to do with another man. Having said that, I can say that I have had sexual experiences with not just straight men, but Bisexual, and even one Homosexual. However, their orientation had no effect on how I define mine.
 
My wife is a hotwife wannabe and very keen on the idea of having sex with men while I watch. I brought the subject up and she was quickly on board.

We haven’t done anything IRL yet but hope to soon. I’d like to extend the activity to me sucking the bull hard for her and cleaning him up afterwards. I have no gay desires but can’t stop thinking about sucking a cock that’s about to be, or has already been, inside my wife.

How do I bring this subject up with my wife without her thinking I’m gay? I don’t even think I’m bi, I just like the idea of sucking cock in this scenario.
Don't bring it up, just let it happen in the moment while you are both ....... Lol then blame it on the alcohol if she is weirded out.
 
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