The dynamics of after.... "seconds"

[Stevens4fun]

"Seconds." ...... What you want (assuming you are the husband or male BF - 99% of the folks in here are male....) is one of the sexiest experiences a husband and wife can have. And assuming you are male hopefully you'll be able to share your needs with your wife - does she like to talk about sex with you? Enjoying "seconds" with her isn't something that's easy to broach and if the two of you haven't yet delved deep into the list of fantasy and bucket list items, it can't just be thrown into the conversation.

What I found when my wife told me she needed to have sex with other men (as she wasn't having orgasms with me inside her)...... - was that once she found the right guy and had internalized that I wanted her to have sex with him as much as she did, - was that she loved for me to see that she was experiencing so much pleasure with him (in our bed), ....and I didn't have to ask her to show my her pussy afterwards. She knew the effect it would have on me. I would immediately get on top of her, penetrate her slick cummy vagina, and ejaculate before going down on her.

Over the early years of our marriage (and lots of sexy discussion about adding men in her/our bed, which guy would to first, and why, etc.) she shared with me that on that first night in our bed when another man took her while I watched, - as he finished rolled off her, her legs instictively opened for me to see and she was looking into my eyes knowing how arousing that was to me. She made no conscious effort to open her legs so I could see, - it just happened - her legs remained open as he pulled out of her and rolled off to her side. It's one of those sexy moments that we all live for. And kudos to her, she was not happy that he pulled out immediately after finishing in her, but she knew what was happening with me......

My eyes were fixed on her glistening labia and the white sperm ring around the opening of her vagina as I moved on top of her. It was the sexiest thing I'd ever seen and my cock just went right in her, - I was only lightly guiding it, mainly because I wanted to see and feel his sperm on my hands and penis as I entered her. It's overwhelming - what she and I both learned was that when I took seconds, I (selfishly) wasn't thinking about making it last longer - the orgasm was overwhelming me before I could think about it much. I didn't know where he'd gone or what he was doing - I completely lost track of the fact that another man was in our bedroom. As a husband, I found it impossible to control my orgasm and last longer in this situation - a man's cock and balls are in complete control of his brain and his body in those moments. I am certain of that. Afterwards, you just lay there and wonder what the fuck just happened and your wife is laying there smirking at you. She's in control now. Just like you wanted. It's a lot to think about afterwards. To use a shopworn phrase: we always fucked like rabbits in the days after an mfm. Sex was heightened to a new level, as was desire.

What was he doing? Answer: he'd walked naked into the kitchen and made himself a drink. He was giving us some "together" time while he recovered.

 

[Ht805cpl]

"Seconds." ...... What you want (assuming you are the husband or male BF - 99% of the folks in here are male....) is one of the sexiest experiences a husband and wife can have. And assuming you are male hopefully you'll be able to share your needs with your wife - does she like to talk about sex with you? Enjoying "seconds" with her isn't something that's easy to broach and if the two of you haven't yet delved deep into the list of fantasy and bucket list items, it can't just be thrown into the conversation.

What I found when my wife told me she needed to have sex with other men (as she wasn't having orgasms with me inside her)...... - was that once she found the right guy and had internalized that I wanted her to have sex with him as much as she did, - was that she loved for me to see that she was experiencing so much pleasure with him (in our bed), ....and I didn't have to ask her to show my her pussy afterwards. She knew the effect it would have on me. I would immediately get on top of her, penetrate her slick cummy vagina, and ejaculate before going down on her.

Over the early years of our marriage (and lots of sexy discussion about adding men in her/our bed, which guy would to first, and why, etc.) she shared with me that on that first night in our bed when another man took her while I watched, - as he finished rolled off her, her legs instictively opened for me to see and she was looking into my eyes knowing how arousing that was to me. She made no conscious effort to open her legs so I could see, - it just happened - her legs remained open as he pulled out of her and rolled off to her side. It's one of those sexy moments that we all live for. And kudos to her, she was not happy that he pulled out immediately after finishing in her, but she knew what was happening with me......

My eyes were fixed on her glistening labia and the white sperm ring around the opening of her vagina as I moved on top of her. It was the sexiest thing I'd ever seen and my cock just went right in her, - I was only lightly guiding it, mainly because I wanted to see and feel his sperm on my hands and penis as I entered her. It's overwhelming - what she and I both learned was that when I took seconds, I (selfishly) wasn't thinking about making it last longer - the orgasm was overwhelming me before I could think about it much. I didn't know where he'd gone or what he was doing - I completely lost track of the fact that another man was in our bedroom. As a husband, I found it impossible to control my orgasm and last longer in this situation - a man's cock and balls are in complete control of his brain and his body in those moments. I am certain of that. Afterwards, you just lay there and wonder what the fuck just happened and your wife is laying there smirking at you. She's in control now. Just like you wanted. It's a lot to think about afterwards. To use a shopworn phrase: we always fucked like rabbits in the days after an mfm. Sex was heightened to a new level, as was desire.

What was he doing? Answer: he'd walked naked into the kitchen and made himself a drink. He was giving us some "together" time while he recovered.

I’ve seen many of your posts, and enjoy them, you speak deeply about the intimacy that goes on between a husband and wife where the wife is shared with other men, I also relate to the concept of him going or being last, even when for is it is more than one man or often a group of them, it the number does not matter, it is the fact for us that he always goes last, he so unselfishly gives his with to other men to enjoy and bring me pleasure only to take me last, often licking their cum first but sometimes just getting on for the final ride, he calls it his reclaiming his wife after giving her to others. Our very first threesome was with another man, a friend of his just happened to be a black guy not on purpose just happened that way, we all started out talking then kissing and touching they undressed me and as we retired to the bed room, he left us to ourselves leaning on the dresser sipping his drink watching this man make love to his young wife for the very first time, I’d catch glimpses of him, stroking his big hard dick sippin his drink, and when he rolled off of me, he took his place and his friend got up and watched us make love to each other, as my husband finished he too got up and his friend took his place, it was like a planned event first one then the other back n forth, one would finish then the other take over, bringing me to orgasm after orgasms none stop all night long till the next morning id never experienced sex like that, completely giving and taking of each other, I will never forget that night many years ago, how exciting it was for my husband to allow another man take his wife, then have me only to low him to have me again and again, always going second or last as you mentioned. What a delightful exposure to the life style for this wife!

 

[Stevens4fun]

I’ve seen many of your posts, and enjoy them, you speak deeply about the intimacy that goes on between a husband and wife where the wife is shared with other men, I also relate to the concept of him going or being last, even when for is it is more than one man or often a group of them, it the number does not matter, it is the fact for us that he always goes last, he so unselfishly gives his with to other men to enjoy and bring me pleasure only to take me last, often licking their cum first but sometimes just getting on for the final ride, he calls it his reclaiming his wife after giving her to others. Our very first threesome was with another man, a friend of his just happened to be a black guy not on purpose just happened that way, we all started out talking then kissing and touching they undressed me and as we retired to the bed room, he left us to ourselves leaning on the dresser sipping his drink watching this man make love to his young wife for the very first time, I’d catch glimpses of him, stroking his big hard dick sippin his drink, and when he rolled off of me, he took his place and his friend got up and watched us make love to each other, as my husband finished he too got up and his friend took his place, it was like a planned event first one then the other back n forth, one would finish then the other take over, bringing me to orgasm after orgasms none stop all night long till the next morning id never experienced sex like that, completely giving and taking of each other, I will never forget that night many years ago, how exciting it was for my husband to allow another man take his wife, then have me only to low him to have me again and again, always going second or last as you mentioned. What a delightful exposure to the life style for this wife!

Thank you! I can relate to so many things you expressed here! Being able to enjoy and all-nighter like you mentioned - we found that we are truly addicted once that first one happened. What I didn't realize then, a year into our marriage, was that my wife had experienced what you described before she met me. It was bound to happen but I helped things along by opening up honestly when she asked me what I fantasized about, and how could she make sex even better for me? That led to us talking about all sorts of stuff we'd done in our previous marriages and while divorced. I think there has to be a high level of trust (and horniness) in a marriage to reach this point without creating insecurities. And ultimately it emerged that if I could just be patient (we were both mid-level career types, traveling for work, and we had family to keep up with) and let her make it happen, all of our fantasies could be a reality. "Don't push," she said, "I want the same things you do."

So to wrap up this lengthy revelation and not bore you all to tears (and it's just like you said about hubby going last), about six months after our wedding, she invited a married coworker she'd been lusting after to our home for a mfm. She asked me to play a more passive role, as her BF was a bit of a novice and really wanted to go first. I was late getting home that morning and they'd finished when I got there. Leaving out the details, we each got what we wanted, and the relationship moved to a point where it was just the two of them in our bed, as I was traveling for work. Pretty good for her first extra marital relationship! She almost always chose classy guys who understood what it was all about.