Thinking about trying something different

[Straightshot22]

I have been letting my wife know for sometime now that I would love for her to be with another guy preferably bigger. Since I'm the only person she's ever been with she has her times where she seems open to it but it goes away for a while I was thinking about letting her know that I'm ok with her finding a date for the week that I'm away in the fall and that she's open to do what she wants just wondering how I should bring it up

 

[Sgt Ray]

Directly. Let her know its something you want, for her pleasure & experience.

 

[sploden]

Try starting with some humor to break the ice for a real conversation. When you are talking about the logistics of your trip, at an appropriate moment in the conversation throw in a comment like “When I get back, I’ll tell you all about what happened during the week. But I’m sure the stories you’ll have about what you did with your boyfriend will be much more exciting.” Just a thought. It always seems easier for me to introduce a more serious discussion with a little suggestive humor. Her reaction will help you judge whether it is a topic she is able to handle at the moment. You may have to say something of the sort several times (on different days) before she takes it up. The second time you joke about it, she’ll know there is more than just a laugh behind it.

 

[Htwf4fwb]

Ask her, her sex fantasies and tell her yours. Then find out what she is willing to do to start and go from there. One thing that is for sure is she is not a mind reader and it will never happen or even start to happen if you don’t tell her. Plant the seed

 

[Straightshot22]

Ask her, her sex fantasies and tell her yours. Then find out what she is willing to do to start and go from there. One thing that is for sure is she is not a mind reader and it will never happen or even start to happen if you don’t tell her. Plant the seed

I planted the seed it just doesn't seem to be growing it has made her more sexual but that's it

 

[sploden]

More sexual is a start. It is a marathon, not a sprint.