Some women embrace the idea and enthusiastically welcome the opportunity, my wife was such a one. But many women have concerns when it comes to having sex with another man. Some are personal others are social. Its my opinion that the social reasons are brought upon us by our society from ancient times to todays ideas. Men and women have been having sex with people other than their spouses since marriage was invented. It's been condemned since religion set up rules to govern us. But how many religious leaders are or have been getting caught in sexual scandals over the years. Many governmental leaders have been caught in sexual escapades over the years as well. How many of you have heard about local leaders being busted for sex with other people not their spouse. Its on the news all the time these days. It happens and its perfectly normal! Don't be swayed by a BS morality that isn't apical for everyone anymore. Times are changing and we need to accept change.
All this publicity has led to the bad image of promiscuous sex. Its really not bad, its just unacceptable to some people, people who feel they need to control your thoughts and actions for your own good. To inflict their biased viewpoints and rules on you because they know what's better for society according to them. What they're seeking is control over you, to direct you in their concept of what good society behavior is and to insure you live up to their standards. Its what proper people do in their opinion.
Does this make you worry what your neighbors, family, and friends will think of you if you have sex with another man. Does the thought of extramarital sex bring about guilty feelings or misgivings of conscience due to society's pressure to conform to the standard that it's unacceptable behaviour. The real question is are you willingly allowing yourself to be manipulated by what others think? Are you going to bent to the controlling viewpoints of conservative people who really don't care about you or your life. You don't share their beliefs and therefore aren't to be held accountable to their standards. Be yourself, do what you want to do regardless of some old outdated belief system of what they think society should be. Live for your own sexual pleasures and gratification. Enjoy your erotic desires and accept the joys of extramarital sex to its fullest potential. Being shared is rewarding and extremely pleasurable. Grab the opportunities whenever they present themselves. Don't be denied the joy and satisfaction you deserve due to what others think, engauge your sexual fantasies and live your life the way you want to, its called freedom. Freedom of thought and freedom to act and live as you see fit. The way that makes you happiest.
On the personal side there's been years of social programming that may have helped to inhibit your thoughts of what is sexually acceptable. Your parents and certain elders may have told you that particular behaviours were unacceptable and to be avoided, in other words there are naughty! You must examine these beliefs of theirs and find out if in fact they are biased social misinformation as told to you by people you respected. Some of these very people may have been doing the very things they told you were bad and enjoying naughty sex all along, the old "do as I say not as I do" advice for others. Seek the truth and talk with your partner. Read articles on the subject, find your own information on the acceptance and attitudes of today's changing society and don't go by what others want you to accept unchallenged. Do what pleases you and accept that what you decide is in your own best interest for you, to live with and progress in your relationships and flourish in your sexual experiences. The objective is not to be held down by how others think how you should behave and live your life, but always to be true to yourself and hold to your ideas of what is and isn't acceptable for you. You'll be much happier in the long run. These are my thoughts on this subject and what I personally believe. If I have offended anyone I offer my apologies as that was not what i had intended.
All this publicity has led to the bad image of promiscuous sex. Its really not bad, its just unacceptable to some people, people who feel they need to control your thoughts and actions for your own good. To inflict their biased viewpoints and rules on you because they know what's better for society according to them. What they're seeking is control over you, to direct you in their concept of what good society behavior is and to insure you live up to their standards. Its what proper people do in their opinion.
Does this make you worry what your neighbors, family, and friends will think of you if you have sex with another man. Does the thought of extramarital sex bring about guilty feelings or misgivings of conscience due to society's pressure to conform to the standard that it's unacceptable behaviour. The real question is are you willingly allowing yourself to be manipulated by what others think? Are you going to bent to the controlling viewpoints of conservative people who really don't care about you or your life. You don't share their beliefs and therefore aren't to be held accountable to their standards. Be yourself, do what you want to do regardless of some old outdated belief system of what they think society should be. Live for your own sexual pleasures and gratification. Enjoy your erotic desires and accept the joys of extramarital sex to its fullest potential. Being shared is rewarding and extremely pleasurable. Grab the opportunities whenever they present themselves. Don't be denied the joy and satisfaction you deserve due to what others think, engauge your sexual fantasies and live your life the way you want to, its called freedom. Freedom of thought and freedom to act and live as you see fit. The way that makes you happiest.
On the personal side there's been years of social programming that may have helped to inhibit your thoughts of what is sexually acceptable. Your parents and certain elders may have told you that particular behaviours were unacceptable and to be avoided, in other words there are naughty! You must examine these beliefs of theirs and find out if in fact they are biased social misinformation as told to you by people you respected. Some of these very people may have been doing the very things they told you were bad and enjoying naughty sex all along, the old "do as I say not as I do" advice for others. Seek the truth and talk with your partner. Read articles on the subject, find your own information on the acceptance and attitudes of today's changing society and don't go by what others want you to accept unchallenged. Do what pleases you and accept that what you decide is in your own best interest for you, to live with and progress in your relationships and flourish in your sexual experiences. The objective is not to be held down by how others think how you should behave and live your life, but always to be true to yourself and hold to your ideas of what is and isn't acceptable for you. You'll be much happier in the long run. These are my thoughts on this subject and what I personally believe. If I have offended anyone I offer my apologies as that was not what i had intended.
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