So my wife has now known that I have this fantasy for about 6 months and I am hoping she will progress things. I’m basically just standing by and waiting to see what happens but I wish there was more that I could do. She thinks it’s cheating, so I’m not convinced it will happen. But I just feel some encouraging signs. On the good side we have a very positive relationship and we are very much in love. We have not had sex in 18 months now. But I have given her oral some. She is also watching porn on occasion and pleasuring herself. She knows that I know about it and we are both fine with it. So she definitely seems interested in other guys. I just wish there was something I could do to get her to take the plunge.
