We have been in a relationship now for 7 years, and meeting other men for around 9 months, living the highs and lows of the lifestyle. Decided to join here as no where online seems to talk about the low points and maybe how to get through them, so here seemed a good place to talk to people, talking in 'real life' to friends and family is clearly impossible. We met fairly early on, he was a lot more experienced than her and worried maybe one day she would want more experiences or cheat. He said to her, to talk if she ever felt she had desires or wants for more experiences. A number of years after she did. We are looking for people to have long detailed chats with, who want to know about us and our journey and want to ask questions and get into the details. For some reason it helps him as she isnt fully aware how he feels. Happy to share pics, videos and screen shots of messages. Would be good if you are experienced and can help. Since meeting other men for some reason this has really helped her confidence and self esteem. He does struggle with the aspects of it though, but difficult to tell her about this clearly. Male 32 female 23