Unsure of the first step

[Wc700]

I'm 58 m and my wife is 55 . We've been married for 33 years. I'm hoping for a cuckold experience with her. Over the years we have been progressing our sexual experiences. Our first big change was the introduction of toys, about 20 years ago along with watching porn together. Then she started masturbating with the toys, I was happy she was exploring with them.
She then surprised me with the purchase of a considerably larger toy, it's a hollow strap on that she likes me to use on her. She cums a lot when we play. I tell her she looks great with such a big cock in her, she just smiles.
I've told her I'd love to watch her with a real one and she just laughs and says I'm enough (obviously just to make me feel good)
What is my next step in trying her to really try it?

 

[jaandaj]

I'm 58 m and my wife is 55 . We've been married for 33 years. I'm hoping for a cuckold experience with her. Over the years we have been progressing our sexual experiences. Our first big change was the introduction of toys, about 20 years ago along with watching porn together. Then she started masturbating with the toys, I was happy she was exploring with them.
She then surprised me with the purchase of a considerably larger toy, it's a hollow strap on that she likes me to use on her. She cums a lot when we play. I tell her she looks great with such a big cock in her, she just smiles.
I've told her I'd love to watch her with a real one and she just laughs and says I'm enough (obviously just to make me feel good)
What is my next step in trying her to really try it?

Talk to her about it. I know u have during sex. But have an open conversation with her about it. Tell her your thoughts. Ask her why she doesn't want to. Don't push anything just openly talk about it

 

[Wc700]

Talk to her about it. I know u have during sex. But have an open conversation with her about it. Tell her your thoughts. Ask her why she doesn't want to. Don't push anything just openly talk about it

Thanks, I'll try soon

 

[jaandaj]

Thanks, I'll try soon

I know it doesn't seem like ground breaking advice but seriously it's best way to go. U need to express how it isn't a way for u to get to go out on her. This is for her experience. U will get ur kicks from her enjoying herself

 

[Wc700]

I know it doesn't seem like ground breaking advice but seriously it's best way to go. U need to express how it isn't a way for u to get to go out on her. This is for her experience. U will get ur kicks from her enjoying herself

That's all I want for her

 

[jaandaj]

That's all I want for her

I completely understand that. But she doesn't and won't for a bit.

 

[spring time]

same problem...

 

[jaandaj]

same problem...

Can't express enough. Communication! Talk to her. Average couple marries for love. She should be your best friend, and you hers. There shouldn't be anything that you can't talk about.
It's hard some times to admit things but it should be done between you.

I'm no expert. No degree. Just married for close to 30 years and still feel I have a wonderful marriage. I don't want to see people mess theirs up. Just have fun and keep the excitement between them and their spouse alive

 

[robbiewillsucku]

Most husbands that want 3way or to be cuckold should try this: while using a toy on her pussy - pull it out and suck her pussy juice off the dildo - do this often. Next when you fuck her do down and lick her pussy clean. Do this often.

 

[vrmtr1]

I'm still a wannabe, but continue make progression. We have toys, we watch porn. I think it is key to "show her" that the idea of her with another guy gets you excited. If you are watching a movie and the theme of cuckolding comes up, show her your hard on. Also, find a podcast on the topic and listen to it with her either on a car ride or while you are doing house projects...again, show her your hard cock and how excited it gets you. Finally, look for a nude beach or resort to go to with her. people there are friendly and she will be able to see other cocks. This lead us to a swingers resort, but we did not play with others, im hoping to one day.

 

[GoodTimes40]

A. How is your trust level as a couple?

B. Have you tried role playing or fantasizing together in bed?

C. I would potentially delve into trying to cum faster when she does fantasize with you and tell her you’d think it would be amazing. I personally can’t stop masturbating 😂 so it doesn’t happen.

 

[lindalongisland]

hi i am married and bi my husband is not we live on long island new york how we started in meeting others first thing you need to feel safe and your limits are resected same room sex we do a lot exhibitionism its safe and fun if we think of more its after knowing them well by learning there safe on limits i like watching sex i like seeing men cum i am not shy and like being looked at and like looking we go to key clubs and private clubs i can be nude and feel safe i like having others watch me having sex and try safe things