Updates on my life as a cuck (?)

[SteveP]

Hey all!

I'll be using this thread to maintain a sort of diary, if you will, or a record of updates on our cuckolding lifestyle. A few of you might remember that I had posted here for the first time on 8th Jan 2025, where I had introduced my wife and I on the New Introductions post. I had mentioned how I was new to this concept, but was willing to know more after my wife had raised it up a couple of times with me.

Well, I just wanted to thank the few of you who had reached out and offered assistance. I've been talking with a few of you on this, both cucks and bulls, and I wanted to thank you all so much for guiding me on this. I've learnt a lot these past months, and I've started to get more comfortable with the idea of my sharing my wife (I won't be sharing to people here haha. Relax guys! ;p). I've also started to even like this idea and find it quite hot. The tips and pointers that some of you shared, the experiences and the media has all really helped me ease into the idea. I've been much more open to the idea of being a cuckold and have started to seriously consider it. So, thanks so much!

I spoke to my wife a couple months ago, and she was quite happy when I said I was willing to try a newer lifestyle (we did have a great date and sex sesh after that haha)! Ever since, we've been on the lookout for a nice guy. My wife has become more free and even wild, I'd say. And I really really like this side of her haha. It's a whole different personality! Of course, we've laid down some ground rules. My wife started an online dating account and has been talking to other men. I know of it though, and she keeps me updated about things, even showing me the chats or chatting in front of me, sharing what they're talking about.

I'll admit, at first, I was pretty bummed out, and felt a bit weird. But now it's gotten much better, and I've even started to find it hot. A couple of weeks ago, my wife showed me a photo she had sent to a match and goddamnnn, was she looking hot. We have declined going on any dates till now, but we're seriously considering that too. My wife, and now I, are thinking of having a bull enter our relationship. I'm anxious and worried, but the thought of having another man, a better man, fuck my wife gets me horny now too haha.

We've gotten in touch with a few bulls and with some guidance from a few friends from here, we're both trying to figure out a nice and safe person to open our relationship with. Let's see what happens!

 

[paracufz]

Hey Steve. Speaking from some experience it is much hotter and more fun if you can find a bull that really clicks with her and rocks her world.

There are some activities that you might find hot like guiding him in and cleaning her up that are much more fun if the three of you get along.

 

[GrovelingCuck]

Mixed emotions are completely normal, but a cuckold has the unique ability to turn feelings of jealousy and inadequacy into raw lust. You may feel a little weird about how and why those feelings turn you on but don't fight it.
On the other hand your wife will likely experience mixed emotions as well and it's your job to assure her that this is what you want. She needs to know that you want this and she has your blessing and support to see other men.

 

[hermano33s]

Mixed emotions are completely normal, but a cuckold has the unique ability to turn feelings of jealousy and inadequacy into raw lust. You may feel a little weird about how and why those feelings turn you on but don't fight it.
On the other hand your wife will likely experience mixed emotions as well and it's your job to assure her that this is what you want. She needs to know that you want this and she has your blessing and support to see other men.

Nice

 

[Bowlerlb]

Hey Steve. Speaking from some experience it is much hotter and more fun if you can find a bull that really clicks with her and rocks her world.

There are some activities that you might find hot like guiding him in and cleaning her up that are much more fun if the three of you get along.

I agree. Guiding a lovers cock in and performing cleanup are important for the wife and her lover, showing that you are totally ok with with her pleasures.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

keep focus - it is all about pleasing her and you need to lick her pussy clean after she fucks you or other cocks.

 

[SteveP]

Hey Steve. Speaking from some experience it is much hotter and more fun if you can find a bull that really clicks with her and rocks her world.

There are some activities that you might find hot like guiding him in and cleaning her up that are much more fun if the three of you get along.

Thanks a lot for the suggestions! Will definitely think of how to go ahead with these!

 

[SteveP]

Mixed emotions are completely normal, but a cuckold has the unique ability to turn feelings of jealousy and inadequacy into raw lust. You may feel a little weird about how and why those feelings turn you on but don't fight it.
On the other hand your wife will likely experience mixed emotions as well and it's your job to assure her that this is what you want. She needs to know that you want this and she has your blessing and support to see other men.

Wow, very well put. You're right. I do feel mixed feelings, but I am now better able to turn them into feelings of lust. It does get me turned on and going now haha. I'll make sure to assure her of this too. Thanks!

 

[Takemoment]

I am a cuckold and I love my role, but it took awhile to accept it. Just be prepared, especially the first time she takes another cock, for the emotional rollercoaster you will experience. Yes there will be excitement on your part, sexual excitement, as you and your wife make plans for her to meet a guy for sex. That is part of the fantasy, since there has not been any real contact with another guy yet. On the day she will meet and be fucked by a guy, yes you will be aroused, but you will also start questioning whether you really want this. It is only natural, after all we are men and we do have egos. I would assume since this is the first time for both of you, she will meet the guy without you. At that point, you will have so many thoughts in your mind, sexual excitement of course, but also anxiety, regret, fear, a desire to call it all off. Those emotions are all normal, after all another man is going to have your wife, fuck her and she will come home (maybe with his semen inside of her)

Even though some think a cuckold is weak, and maybe we are, you need to be strong for your wife afterwards. No matter how you feel about the deed, assure her you are happy for her. Let her know you are there for her and if she wants to tell you about the experience, you are more than willing to listen. If she does not, accept it and do not press her for details. Whether she wants to continue in this lifestyle, let her know you support her decision one way or the other.

 

[SteveP]

I am a cuckold and I love my role, but it took awhile to accept it. Just be prepared, especially the first time she takes another cock, for the emotional rollercoaster you will experience. Yes there will be excitement on your part, sexual excitement, as you and your wife make plans for her to meet a guy for sex. That is part of the fantasy, since there has not been any real contact with another guy yet. On the day she will meet and be fucked by a guy, yes you will be aroused, but you will also start questioning whether you really want this. It is only natural, after all we are men and we do have egos. I would assume since this is the first time for both of you, she will meet the guy without you. At that point, you will have so many thoughts in your mind, sexual excitement of course, but also anxiety, regret, fear, a desire to call it all off. Those emotions are all normal, after all another man is going to have your wife, fuck her and she will come home (maybe with his semen inside of her)

Even though some think a cuckold is weak, and maybe we are, you need to be strong for your wife afterwards. No matter how you feel about the deed, assure her you are happy for her. Let her know you are there for her and if she wants to tell you about the experience, you are more than willing to listen. If she does not, accept it and do not press her for details. Whether she wants to continue in this lifestyle, let her know you support her decision one way or the other.

Thank you so much for this! Very kind words and very true. I've definitely read and heard how cucks need to be strong for their wives. Though my wife herself is into it, I'll make sure that I support her in whatever manner she wants. But what you said is pretty deep!

 

[SteveP]

Ok guys, update time. I had mentioned how my wife made a dating account. And gosh, is it hot to see her chatting with bulls. She's been talking to other men and shares things with me, about how she felt and which guy she really liked. It feels weird to have her talk about other men like that, but I kinda find it hot. We also shortlisted a few bulls for us and have been chatting together. The ones that we've shortlisted know that I am involved and they are fine, even enthusiastic about it haha. But yesterday, Kate sent this guy a nude picture of herself and received one in return (he was hung). She told me about it afterwards and that got me fired up. I saw their chats and the guy had some pretty explicit imaginations of what he'd do to her. We're now planning to go on dates with the shortlisted men to see how they really are. We'll set the ground rules. There will obviously be no sex on the first date. I'm going for her safety too, as some of you suggested. I think we'll start with the one she sent the image to, yesterday. He seemed really eager to meet 🙂

Oh and the sex yesterday was pretty good. Kate was all fired up and ready to go after her chatting with the guy!

 

[robbiewillsucku]

sounds like fun - be such to lick her pussy clean after she gets fucked.

 

[wormwood]

Ok guys, update time. I had mentioned how my wife made a dating account. And gosh, is it hot to see her chatting with bulls. She's been talking to other men and shares things with me, about how she felt and which guy she really liked. It feels weird to have her talk about other men like that, but I kinda find it hot. We also shortlisted a few bulls for us and have been chatting together. The ones that we've shortlisted know that I am involved and they are fine, even enthusiastic about it haha. But yesterday, Kate sent this guy a nude picture of herself and received one in return (he was hung). She told me about it afterwards and that got me fired up. I saw their chats and the guy had some pretty explicit imaginations of what he'd do to her. We're now planning to go on dates with the shortlisted men to see how they really are. We'll set the ground rules. There will obviously be no sex on the first date. I'm going for her safety too, as some of you suggested. I think we'll start with the one she sent the image to, yesterday. He seemed really eager to meet 🙂

Oh and the sex yesterday was pretty good. Kate was all fired up and ready to go after her chatting with the guy!

It's so hot to hear about your journey!
Do you have a date set for the meet?
I'm sure you've heard this before but be prepared for new and conflicting feelings during your meet-up. You need to be supportive and strong for your wife. She may show a side of herself you've never seen before.
I wish you the best. Good luck.

 

[Steven35]

My wife brought up the idea too. I have a very small cock and I cum really fast. She lovingly told me that I wasn't able to sexually satisfy her, and that she'd like to explore having other lovers. We set up some rules, and we dove in. At first I was feeling some jealousy. Seeing her react sexually with men who were muscular, with big cocks, who could stay hard and last a long time and who gave her multiple orgasms was difficult since I'm none of those things. But at the same time seeing how my wife was being completely taken care of sexually made me happy. It was a gift I was glad to give her. Now I'm very aroused hearing the details of her encounters, or watching as she is brought to complete sexual euphoria, or maybe just listening and masturbating from the guest bedroom as they both have orgasms. I love this life now and we have a wonderful marriage.

 

[cuck52]

keep focus - it is all about pleasing her and you need to lick her pussy clean after she fucks you or other cocks.

My wife required that from the first time I fucked her.. The 2nd time I fucked her she said not to make her tell me again. She never has. It's very dominant on her part and can be very humiliating if done right. She always asks me how does it taste and how does it make me feel doing it and swallowing sperm for her. I tell her the truth, she deserves it and it's an honor and privilege doing it for her...

 

[SubTob]

Ok guys, update time. I had mentioned how my wife made a dating account. And gosh, is it hot to see her chatting with bulls. She's been talking to other men and shares things with me, about how she felt and which guy she really liked. It feels weird to have her talk about other men like that, but I kinda find it hot. We also shortlisted a few bulls for us and have been chatting together. The ones that we've shortlisted know that I am involved and they are fine, even enthusiastic about it haha. But yesterday, Kate sent this guy a nude picture of herself and received one in return (he was hung). She told me about it afterwards and that got me fired up. I saw their chats and the guy had some pretty explicit imaginations of what he'd do to her. We're now planning to go on dates with the shortlisted men to see how they really are. We'll set the ground rules. There will obviously be no sex on the first date. I'm going for her safety too, as some of you suggested. I think we'll start with the one she sent the image to, yesterday. He seemed really eager to meet 🙂

Oh and the sex yesterday was pretty good. Kate was all fired up and ready to go after her chatting with the guy!

This sounds like you're making progress and reminds me of our first experiences many years ago now!

One key thing for us was realising that C is in charge and that this is all about her pleasure. My pleasure comes from her pleasure. We realised early on that she didn't like me being present, and whilst I felt that I was providing "safety and reassurance" she neither wanted nor needed either. C also doesn't enjoy telling me about her dates or letting me clean her etc. These were all my fantasies and not hers, but the biggest turn on of all is knowing that she's having the sex that she craves with other men.

All couples are different, and it may be that Kate's turned on by you being there, getting her ready, putting her in her lovers, cleaning up etc, but this has to be an exploration of what she wants...