I've chatted with a few. I'd like to hear from the hubby's and wife's who are here because your curious. Or, probably more so hubby's, who are here because its a fantasy and you've either never said anything and it's a fantasy that has a grip on you or you've mentioned it but was either dismissed or timing isn't right.
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tdog7119
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I’m there. Fantasy that is dismissed. Wife is too vanilla. She flat out refuses the idea. Now and then she half heartedly plays into it while I’m talking with her. But, it’s like prying a bear trap open. I have to pull her teeth to get her to talk through the scenario while performing.
slowwewaxation
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We were having some fun yesterday, and in the middle of things, my wife asked, "Is that really your fantasy?" We both knew what she was talking about, and I didn't want to waste an opportunity to provide some positive feedback, soI smiled at her and replied, "Of course it is." We went back and forth like this a few times until she sighed, closed her eyes, and leaned her head back. I mentioned a few specific things I’d like to happen, and she just pulled my head closer to her.
What should my next move be?
What should my next move be?
Cuntfister
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slowwewaxation
Male
I don't really have anything to show and never could without her consent. There's not really much to tell either. This is the most exciting thing we have done as far as getting her to loosen up.
tdog7119
Male
At least she listened and didn’t just dismiss it completely. Let it fester some in her mind. Does she participate in alcohol? If yes then while she is feeling more relaxed and you are in the heat of passion introduce the topic and role play with her. Get her to give you verbal feed back of how she wants it and describe the scene you have in your head and play with dildos while doing so. Then get her opened up with talking through how she likes it and ask her where she wants it or in what position. Get her engaged in the activity. When finished tell her how much you enjoyed it and how hot she looked and felt while getting into it. Keep it alive. Then let it lay for some time again. Make little subtle comments while the day goes on and drop seeds. See if she starts responding positively.
tdog7119
Male
How does she treat those times, as she's playing along or does she seem to get into it and have a powerful O
tdog7119
Male
Vaguely play along on occasions but definitely cums on it nicely. I always fill her in the end and tell her how hot it was seeing her fucked well. I think she sort of enjoys the thought at times, but her beliefs get in her way of her pleasure.
I started mentioning to my wife that I wanted her to get fucked by another guy. She never dismissed it, but was surprised. Once during sex I brought it up, and she was receptive to the idea. As we got into it more and more, I asked if she had a person in mind. She said she did. I told her to close her eyes, and imagine it was his cock in her instead of mine. After a little bit I asked who it was, she she seemed reluctant to tell me. I eventually convinced her, and she said "Mark." I asked, "what do you want to do to Mark?" Again she was reluctant, so I was just like, "say it." Then I heard the 5 words I still jerk off to..."I want to fuck Mark."
Fast forward a couple of days and I'm playing with her pussy in bed. She doesn't seem super into it, and her pussy is dry. Then she asked me, "what do you want me to do?" I was confused, but she asked the question again, somewhat suggestively. "What do you want me to do?" I said, "I want you to fuck Mark." She moaned and there was instant rush of moisture to her pussy.
She has told me it's something she'd consider as long as I'm ok with it. I am, of course. The interesting part is she hangs out with him, sometimes at her place. They text all the time. I'm not stupid, I know what's happening and I love it.
Fast forward a couple of days and I'm playing with her pussy in bed. She doesn't seem super into it, and her pussy is dry. Then she asked me, "what do you want me to do?" I was confused, but she asked the question again, somewhat suggestively. "What do you want me to do?" I said, "I want you to fuck Mark." She moaned and there was instant rush of moisture to her pussy.
She has told me it's something she'd consider as long as I'm ok with it. I am, of course. The interesting part is she hangs out with him, sometimes at her place. They text all the time. I'm not stupid, I know what's happening and I love it.
BTW, if you do show her, id love a picture to go with these stories but understand if you don't do that
Ever use a dildo and fuck her at the same time
If you make your wife feel attractive, important, desirable and sexy, it goes a long way. Then I started letting her know other men thought of her the same way. She admitted it's a huge turn on to have men find her desirable.
I’m at a similar stage.
When ...... we often have sex and there is plenty of back and forth about us having an MFM threesome.
She has agreed to us booking a hotel room and getting a third to come along but that is as far as it gets. I don’t know where to go next - who do I approach, do we pay someone initially?
We are both at the stage now where we do want it to happen but wife would never make a move on another guy. Can be frustrating but as many have mentioned here, the sex is amazing when we talk about it and I don’t know whether keeping it a fantasy would be best?
When ...... we often have sex and there is plenty of back and forth about us having an MFM threesome.
She has agreed to us booking a hotel room and getting a third to come along but that is as far as it gets. I don’t know where to go next - who do I approach, do we pay someone initially?
We are both at the stage now where we do want it to happen but wife would never make a move on another guy. Can be frustrating but as many have mentioned here, the sex is amazing when we talk about it and I don’t know whether keeping it a fantasy would be best?
My wife knows I like "the idea" of her being a hot wife. It's in the "never gonna happen" category. There have been some upsides even though we both know it won't happen. More about that in my reply to tdog7119.
My wife is vanilla also. After years of a less than satisfying sex life her vanilla attitude wore me down. I failed to get hard one night after a long stretch between sex. I like sex even if it's not as good as it could be. I was crushed. When we finally talked I told her I needed her to be more engaged vocally. I needed a little mental stimulation to break out of our routine. To her credit she has done in remarkable job of making up stories and saying nasty things in bed. She was timid at first but now she seems comfortable and comes up with stuff that amazes me.
While it may not seem like much to most around here, it is a significant welcome change. She seems more aggressive. We have sex more often. We are doing more different things. Probably the most significant thing to me is that she has "those" thoughts tumbling around in her head when she concocts her little stories. That's nice to think about! So, it isn't what I think I want, but it is a lot better than it was.
tdog7119
Male
That hasn’t happened. She doesn’t think it will work. Too much for her she says.
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