Glory holes are closed in my city. A few adult bookstores have theaters along with the arcades. The arcade booths are small. Theaters are better, but are hit and miss regarding m-f couples. More likely you will find men who want to give or receive oral, sometimes anal. M-F couples and even single women going to the theaters was more common before Covid, but has mostly tapered off now. I know that at one theater, one guy used to hang in the parking lot to see if a m-f couple or a woman entered the theater. Then he would pay to enter, but not before. One time when he arrived at the place, he asked the clerk if there were any women or m-f couples in the theater. Clerk said no, so the guy went outside to the parking lot. I would not be surprised if there was an alert network to inform friends when women were there.
Most of our experiences have been in Texas venues, major metro areas... some in Europe and the UK, beginning in the mid-70s. Our last ABS visit as a couple was in the DFW area; fall time-frame, pre-pandemic 2018...
Many of the venues we frequented over the years are now gone/closed. The anonymity of the gloryhole is so fuckking hot. It was a relative rarity by the mid-2000's in our experience. On a busy night, Krista could suck more than a dozen strange cocks, enjoy being groped, fingered, and on some visits, receive a thorough fucking or gangbang if the situation was right.
Our last visit, Xposed, on a couples night was depraved. I've published an account of it on Literotica. Krista had sex (despite her inclination not to, with condoms) with a least a dozen men, and one woman. The cops came through twice that night, but didn't take any action - the regulars said that the cops come through looking mainly for open ...... use, ...... or similar. There were two other couples in the interval we visited. The women get a tremendous amount of action. It was also a great opportunity for some bi action.
Our very first visit, in contrast, a Houston-area ABS, was pretty innocent. We bought our first porn VHS tape during that visit. Much later in life, Krista confessed to multiple, independent solo visits to the 'Naughty Shop' as she referred to it.
There is just something so hot, so erotic, watching your pretty wife slobber, lick, kiss, suck and gag on an anonymous stranger's cock, poking through a hole in the wall...